First Thanksgiving after divorce

Nuestro primer Thanksgiving solitas 🤎🍂

Mientras miro este video, me doy cuenta de cuánto hemos crecido juntas. Este año ha sido de cambios, de aprendizajes y de días que no siempre fueron fáciles… pero contigo, Isabella, todo tiene sentido.

Gracias por cada risa, cada abrazo inesperado y cada momento que me recuerda que lo más bonito de mi vida eres tú.

Hoy y siempre, doy gracias por tenerte.

Our first Thanksgiving, just the two of us 🤎🍂

Watching this video reminds me how much we’ve grown together. This year brought challenges, lessons, and moments that weren’t always easy… but with you, Isabella, everything feels worth it.

Thank you for every laugh, every tiny hug, and every moment that reminds me you’re the most beautiful part of my life.

Today and always, I’m grateful for you.

#Thanksgiving #MomAndDaughter #Grateful #Blessed #ThankfulHeart

2025/11/28 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating Thanksgiving after a divorce can feel incredibly daunting. I remember those "feelings found" – a mix of sadness and a deep determination to create something beautiful for my daughter. It’s easy to feel like you "didn't feel like doing anything" at first, but this holiday is a perfect opportunity to redefine what family celebration means for you and your children. One of the most powerful things you can do is establish *new traditions*. While old "divorced couple's Thanksgiving traditions" might be gone, you gain the freedom to craft something truly unique and meaningful. Think about what brings you and your kids joy. Maybe it’s trying a brand new recipe that becomes 'your thing' – perhaps a special "turkey" preparation, or a comforting side dish like "rice with beans" if that's a family favorite. I found immense joy in the "cooking" process, even when it felt overwhelming, making sure to "mix everything very well" and enjoy each step. If co-parenting, open communication about schedules and expectations is key. Even if you celebrate separately, you can still focus on making your time together special. Invite "my family" or "my friends" to join, expanding your circle of gratitude. Remember, it's about making new memories and appreciating the "day-to-day" blessings. My own experience showed me that even a simple meal, lovingly prepared, can bring "great joy" and become the "result of my dinner" that I cherished. It's okay to feel "nostalgia" for past Thanksgivings, but embrace the strength you've gained through "many changes, many challenges." Just like my daughter "fills me with strength" and "great joy," finding gratitude in your present circumstances is transformative. Focus on creating an "important moment" for your children, showing them that even through change, love and joy persist. This new chapter can be one of the "strongest years of your life," filled with unexpected blessings. Don't let anything 'take that smile away' – celebrate the resilience and love that defines your family now. Happy Thanksgiving!

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