Wedding planning: 13 months to go!

Wedding planning is no joke so I want to start bringing you along with me as we plan our wedding!

After about 2.5 months of enjoying the engagement, I began looking into venues in my area and requesting quotes, what was included, minimums, service charges, etc. I fell in love with the second venue we toured and thus, we got our date!

I knew the next few vendors we had to book were the caterer and the photographer so I started looking into the caterers immediately and took a little longer for the photographer but finally found one with the vibes I liked and the price range and was available on our date!

I prepped my Pinterest board with flower colors, bridal party colors, wedding dresses I liked, anything and everything!!

Next, I asked my girls 🥰 I made them these little boxes and a cute info card on Canva and had them printed at Walgreens.

I am almost done with the wedding website besides the info we don’t yet have!

My most exciting is saying “yes” to the dress and ordering my wedding dress (!!!!!!)

I have so many videos of inspiration and different ideas for every aspect of wedding planning and I am really loving it!

Next up: we need to find a DJ!! 🎶

#bride #2026bride #summerthings

#GirlTalk #wedding

2025/8/11 Edited to

... Read morePlanning a wedding involves many detailed steps and decisions that ultimately ensure your big day is memorable and runs smoothly. Early on, choosing the right venue is crucial, as it often sets the tone and availability for the entire event. When vetting venues, consider not only aesthetics but also what is included in rental fees, such as furniture, linens, and services, as well as any minimums or extra service charges. This helps in budgeting accurately and avoiding surprises. Next come essential vendors like caterers and photographers. Book your caterer early to secure your preferred menu that fits your guests’ tastes and dietary needs. Photographers require careful consideration—look for someone whose portfolio matches your desired style and who is available on your wedding date. Building a Pinterest board with color palettes, floral arrangements, and dress styles can help communicate your vision with your vendors and bridal party. Involving your bridal party early with thoughtful invitations or ‘bridesmaid boxes’ adds a personal touch and helps coordinate accessories and colors. Creating a wedding website can streamline guest communication by providing all event details in one place, including RSVP options, registry information, and schedules. Saying “yes” to the dress is a milestone that brings excitement but also requires planning for fittings and alterations. Many brides gather inspiration videos and ideas across different wedding aspects like decor, entertainment, and cocktails to personalize their day. Finally, securing a DJ or live entertainment helps set the party atmosphere. When selecting entertainment, consider your musical preferences and that of your guests to keep everyone engaged. By methodically tackling each planning phase from venue booking, vendor selection, visual inspiration, to final details, brides can reduce stress and create their dream wedding. This comprehensive approach reflects the common experiences of many 2026 brides preparing for their special day, making the planning process an exciting journey rather than an overwhelming task.

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Mel.zzle

How did you do the website? Ahh so exciting!!

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Julia🍀

Wedding planning is wild! 💍 Love the bridesmaid boxes! So cute! I'm just trying to survive college. 😂

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