Toxic parents 🥹

A child grew up in a house full of snapping, snapping, cursing. Despite never hitting us, the words inflicted countless wounds on us.

Every time there is a problem, we are often the first to see us as wrong. In fact, we may not even make a mistake, but he chooses to blame us first anyway.

We just want them to listen to us more, use more reason and effect, not emotionally upset, yell at the irony, put so loud that we don't want to talk, or sometimes they feel that hope is too high that they don't ask our feelings what we want, what we don't like, they never ask.

(Dream) 🌟 neglect in our dreams. Let us continue our dreams of our own parents.

(Sorry, we're not.) 😤 think you're always doing it right.

(To curse) 😞 use profanity, use harsh words.

(I like to take my emotions) 😞 don't listen to anyone's opinions. I don't care how other people feel.

Use only his own emotions, mainly without caring about the feelings of the person he listens to, how he feels when he can't do anything, as he is sarcastic, stupid, not patient, but he doesn't know what we have encountered, he is not there with us that when we try to push, can't see, only see our negative side until we feel that we are worthless in his eyes.

Knowing that he is a parent, he can teach us, but should choose to use words that are like to make it better, not fuss, but use our emotions, not to always support his emotions, does not mean that we can endure it every time. Until sometimes we feel like cutting off from him, if we have a stable life, we should contact him less, because the more often we keep in touch, the more confused or addicted to the habit from him.

People have the same limits. We've been patient for 25 years.

The atmosphere inside is not the same anymore, so we choose to wave goodbye and live our own lives better enough, because if we continue to resist, we are more afraid of depression than we have been imprisoned.

But anyway, he is still our parents. We say this, we are not, we do not love, just we can not be together, so choose to protect ourselves before waiting to support him away. Let nostalgia or distance work better than seeing face every day, quarrel.

🗣 further advice: Try to live alone, it will make us feel that we have grown up to meet a wide world, causing us to learn a lot. Alone is not always bad. Just may have some loneliness. Considered very comfortable. Do not worry or headache because of anyone. Try to try, it is encouraging for everyone. ✌️❤️

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