bf kissed another man?

So this just happened… my boyfriend kissed another man. I don’t even know how to process it. He says it didn’t “mean anything,” but to me it feels like a betrayal.

I don’t know if I should see this as cheating, or if I should just let it go. Part of me is hurt, part of me is confused.

Would you consider this a dealbreaker?

#AskLemon8 #LetsChat #RelationshipTalk

2025/9/20 Edited to

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Okay was it a kiss or were they kissing? Feel like it’s different

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nah guys it's no homo😭🙏

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