12 Tips Turn Yourself Into an Opportunity Magnet
Many people spend their entire lives pleading for good fortune from the sacred, but good fortune is not just a matter of where destiny drifts from.
Good luck is the result of creating the right factor * * to the "time of good luck," which consists of ourselves, the person who meets, the situation, and the right moment.
To illustrate it, good luck is like a butterfly.
> If you want butterflies to fly into your life, you shouldn't chase, because the more you chase, the more butterflies fly away.
> What to do is grow flowers and create a good enough atmosphere. When the flowers bloom, the butterflies fly towards you.
> Good luck, too. We don't have to chase opportunities, but we should create internal reasons for ourselves. When the time comes, opportunities will see us.
Being an opportunity magnet is therefore not a coincidence, but a "skill" that can be honed through the following 12 thinking principles.
Section 1
Make yourself ready for good luck.
Developing from within is like preparing the soil so that the flowers of opportunity grow and blossom.
1. Establish functional expertise
* * Expertise * *
The first rule is that you have to be really good at what you do, no matter what your career.
Architects must practice creativity and sharpen ideas, and lawyers should also understand nature and humanity deeply.
Excellence from practice is an asset that no one can take away from you and is a key reason to trust others and offer opportunities.
2. Have deep and wide knowledge.
* * T-Shaped Knowledge * *
In addition to knowing the sciences that we master, we should also know about other sciences, especially those that look different or different.
Albert Einstein took an interest in both physics and music, while Steve Hobs brought the ideas of sign, art and simplicity together with technology.
Learning multiple sciences will allow you to have a unique "signature," see connections that others cannot see, and not become one-sided talented person.
New creativity and innovation often occur at the intersection between multiple branches of knowledge.
3. Train the mind to be calm and neutral.
* * Equanimity * *
On a day when emotions rush, intelligence often decreases.
Training the mind to be neutral, not too positive or too negative, will help us to see the situation clearly, like a calm surface that can see what's below.
Concentration is one of the reasons for fulfillment because it allows us to think carefully, see choices, and make proper decisions at important times.
4. Visible possibilities
* * Optimism * *
The door of opportunity is often immediately closed for people judged "impossible" since they haven't tried it.
For example, a daughter saw an announcement to rent a tenement and decided to call, while he said he shouldn't call because the new building was so rent would definitely exceed the budget.
But when actually calling back, it was found that the rental price was exactly in the budget.
Sometimes the opportunity is not far away, but many people do not dare to open the door.
When we think "it might be possible," we will dare to do something that others do not even dare to try.
5. Target high
* * High Goals * *
Our brains use energy to think big goals and small goals are not very different, but big goals will help extract more potential.
Try changing the question from
"How to produce a little more goods?"
Is
"How to make 200 products at the same cost and time?"
Larger problems will force us to think differently, look for new tools and create unprecedented methods.
Big thinking is therefore not meant to be fanciful, but to open up space for our potential to work to the fullest.
6. Have faith in the good.
* * Faith * *
Faith is the connection of ourselves to something greater than ourselves, whether it is the universe, humanity, virtue, or Rutthai.
A single lump of clay may be a small lump, but combined with the land, it becomes part of a great power.
A single drop of water can dry up, but combined with the ocean, it becomes part of a power that is approximately vast.
The right faith does not stop us from acting, but gives us the strength to move forward, even on days when the results are not yet visible.
Section 2
Open the door, get lucky.
When the inside is ready, we need to learn how to interact with people and the outside world to increase the chances of good things coming into life.
7. Choose a friend
* * Noble Friends * *
The power, thought, and behavior of those around us will gradually seep into us, whether we know it or not.
It says that our lives are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, but in reality, it also includes the books we read, the media we watch, and the information we receive each day.
If you want to improve yourself, be close to those who are qualified, learn how to think, how to work, and their standards.
Choosing a good environment can greatly shorten the period of growth.
8. Take yourself to find something new.
* * New Experiences * *
If we do the same thing, talk to the same person, go to the same place, and live in the same cycle every day, new opportunities are rare.
Trying new activities, traveling to places you've never been, attending seminars, or talking to different people in your career creates a "new intersection" in life.
We don't know where opportunities will come from, but we can increase our opportunities by opening up our own world.
9. Be generous and facilitated
* * Be Accommodating * *
Don't make everything difficult. And don't jam the lives of those around you unnecessarily.
For example, once staying in a hotel has found that the water pressure is lighter than expected, but can still be used normally, we may choose to adapt, rather than rant or demand that everyone be chaotic because of trivial matters.
To be "easy" does not mean to allow others to take advantage, but to distinguish which matters should be resolved, and which matters can be flexible.
When we help smooth the lives of others, we often regain our cooperation and goodwill.
10. Practice giving regularly
* * Consistent Giving * *
Being a giver doesn't have to start with a lot of money. We can educate, give time, encourage, give opportunities, or help solve small problems for others.
As we become useful to people, new opportunities often see us more easily.
Most people want to help people who benefit a lot of people because they know that when they help this person, the good can pass on to a lot of people.
Systematic giving is therefore not only a matter of goodness, but also of creating value, trust and long-term relationships.
11. Dare to do something low-risk but high-reward.
* * Low Risk, High Rewards * *
Sometimes it costs only shyness or rejection, but if successful, the results can change lives.
For example,
* Submit entries, although our company is still small.
* Contact for an interview with a distinguished person.
* Offer projects to large organizations.
* Apply for a job that has not completed all of our qualifications.
* Raise your hand to offer comments at the meeting.
Many people miss the opportunity, not because they have no ability, but because they are afraid of losing face.
Before turning down the opportunity, ask yourself,
> If it doesn't succeed, what will we really lose?
> And if successful, how much will our lives change?
12. Use words to expand life opportunities.
* * Power of Speech * *
Words affect our thoughts, relationships and actions.
Don't insult or reinforce yourself as a failure, and don't rush to condemn others, because the words we use regularly gradually become the framework that determines how we see the world.
Practice sincerely appreciating the achievements of others, because appreciation makes us open our hearts to learning, rather than letting envy block opportunities.
Good words may not change everything immediately, but they can always build encouragement, trust and relationships that lead to new opportunities.
Good luck may have a part we can't control, but we can always increase the likelihood that good things happen.
We can develop expertise, open up to new knowledge, train our mind to be calm, see possibilities, set challenging goals, choose good people, go out and experience new experiences, give givers, and dare to try low-risk things.
Don't just chase the butterfly of good luck.
Return to plant flowers in yourself, beautify the garden of life, and create an atmosphere conducive to opportunities.
When factors are ready, the right people, the right circumstances, and the right time will gradually converge.
And then one day, you may find that fate is not out of reach.
Because part of it has always been in your hands.
- Word power, heart power -
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