My Two Cents…

Do I wish this was a woman’s only app? YES. Do I hate men? No. Do I hate the patriarchy? And toxic masculinity? Absof*ckinglutely.

If you’re a man here for the aesthetics, for recipes, self improvement, etc… you are not the problem. Your brothers using this as a dating app and making women uncomfortable in what once felt like a safe space are the problem.

Men- to me, you are welcome here- but please be respectful. If you’re already doing that, thank you!

Until we have a women’s only app- I am so thankful for the block button 😮‍💨

#menonlemon8 #patriarchy #toxicmasculinity #Lemon8

2024/5/16 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's digital landscape, many women seek online spaces that prioritize their comfort and safety. The rise of toxic masculinity in social interactions is a significant concern, highlighting the need for platforms that cater exclusively to women's experiences. While some men engage respectfully, many contribute to uncomfortable environments. Platforms like Lemon8 need to acknowledge these dynamics and consider creating women-only spaces to foster positive interactions. A safe online community allows women to share their interests without fear of harassment or unwanted advances. The importance of a dedicated space cannot be overstated, as it enables women to engage freely in topics ranging from fashion to self-improvement. Tools like block buttons are helpful, but they are not a true substitute for an inclusive environment. By emphasizing respect and understanding, we can create a welcoming community for everyone. The future of social apps should focus on inclusivity, allowing men who engage positively to thrive while also protecting the experiences of women. Discussions surrounding patriarchy and toxic behaviors must continue to ensure that all users feel valued and safe. Explore more on these issues and contribute to the conversation surrounding gender dynamics in online spaces.

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Not my brothers!! Here for motivation + recipes and anything else interesting.

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I’ve seen so many posts about how we want men to show up on this app, but no accountability for the women who are really nasty on here. I can easily ignore a man in my DMs, but the most rude and unnecessary comments for me, have been from other women.

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