Not everyone struggling or in misery is miserable or stuck. Many people move through it, whether fast or slow. Some people choose to be in it and they want to drag everyone else into it too. I choose not to spend time with these people. I also hope they choose at some point to work through it too!
From personal experience, I've learned that acknowledging struggle doesn't have to mean surrendering to misery. Many people experience periods of hardship, but what sets us apart is our attitude and the choices we make during these times. It's natural to feel down or overwhelmed when facing challenges, but choosing how to respond can transform the entire experience. Rather than dwelling on pain, focusing on small positive steps—like connecting with supportive friends, practicing gratitude, or engaging in hobbies—can create momentum towards healing. I’ve also found that distancing myself from people who seem to want to perpetuate negativity helps protect my own mental well-being. This isn’t about cutting others off harshly but about recognizing that surrounding yourself with positive influences nurtures resilience. The keyword here is "not miserably"—you can be struggling yet still maintain hope and the willingness to move forward. Sometimes progress is slow, and that’s perfectly okay. Recovery and growth aren’t linear; patience with yourself is crucial. If you find yourself in a tough spot, consider journaling your thoughts or reaching out to a trusted friend or counselor. These are proactive ways to work through difficulties instead of getting stuck. Ultimately, how we navigate misery shapes our future more than the misery itself.