If you can't find all the causes... Maybe it's a sign of "body" instead of "mind"? The savior of a child who can't wake up in the morning / Blind spot of iron that I want all moms to know

Why don t you want to go to school?

You must have been close to your child's feelings, desperately thinking about what is the cause and how to solve it, and searching for it.

Because I have done everything I can for my child,

"I can't think of any more causes..."

"I don't know how to give it to you because I don't have anything to do..."

I think there are many parents who are stuck and worried alone.

There is good news that parents who are in trouble without knowing the reason should know.

Actually, the real reason why you don't want to go to school. It's not a problem of your child's "mental" or "feelings," but a completely different cause called [iron deficiency] in the body may be hidden.

🧠 "body" rather than "mind" is issuing SOS?

During the upper grades of elementary school to junior high school, when the mind and body change significantly, the amount of "iron" required increases rapidly with growth.

If you can't find the reason no matter how much you look for it, it may not be that your child's mind refuses, but it may be that your body is reaching its limit and physically unable to produce the energy to go to school.

When iron is deficient, the following signs are likely to appear in the child's mind and body:

Lack of sustained concentration in school or declining grades. And

It becomes difficult to get up in the morning, and late arrivals and absences increase

Fatigue (body sluggishness) may cause lack of motivation or irritation

Getting tired quickly during sports or losing endurance

In the case of girls, it may be a vicious cycle that progresses and iron falls out...

Recently, in addition to these iron deficiencies, cases of orthostatic dysregulation, in which the balance of the autonomic nervous system is lost, are also increasing.

🌀 the identity of "orthostatic regulation disorder" that looks like a feeling problem

Orthostatic dysregulation is a condition in which blood flow to the brain is temporarily insufficient due to disturbance of autonomic nerves.

As a result, the following painful symptoms occur.

I just can't get up in the morning (even if I wake up, my body doesn't move)

When you stand up, you feel dizzy or dizzy.

Headache, nausea, strong sluggishness in the morning

The greatest pain of this condition lies in the characteristic of being sick like hell in the morning, but becoming energetic like a lie in the afternoon and night.

Because you can move energetically from the evening, it is easy to be misunderstood as "feeling problem," "lazy," "because of staying up late," but it is a "physical disease" that you can not do anything with your intention.

👋 not just parents, to the next approach

"I looked for a reason to be so close, but I just can't go to school."

In such a case, there is no need for parents to worry about "Is my relationship bad?" or blame the child at all.

There is no need to blame yourself for "iron deficiency even though you are eating properly every day." Because iron deficiency at this time of year occurs so much that absorption cannot keep up with normal meals alone [Because the child's body is growing rapidly at an incredible speed].

"It may not be the reason of the mind, but it may be a sign that the 'mechanism of the body' peculiar to the growth period has not caught up."

If there is a sign that you can think of, please do not hold it alone and first consult your pediatrician or professional medical institution.

Why don't you take a positive step together with your child, such as asking a doctor to look at your child's condition firmly and checking the numerical value with blood tests, receiving advice on efficient nutritional supplements and adjusting the daily rhythm?

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