I see this conversation on my timelines all the time about whether a woman should keep the baby even if the baby father doesn’t want that child – and women are allowed to want and keep their babies regardless. They don’t need to reason with the father about wanting to keep the baby or keep the baby

And I’ll do it again! Say what y'all want about Alabama, but l've never seen it more blue since I moved down here. I think we got the potential to flip eventually, and it's coming sooner than are thinking. And yes, I am some giving some of that to the transplants and the up and coming

If you are a black girl with 4A, 4B, or 4C hair then you know we all used this in the 2000’s. We spent years recovering from it. This did us so dirty lol it left our hair dry, brittle, and fried! Also the way we would just slab it onnnn! I’m cringing just thinking of it. I’m so happy we don’t u

Wet hair is weak and breaks easily so having it rub against pillow and even a bonnet can be damaging. A damp scalp and hair trapped under a bonnet or against a pillow creates a warm breeding ground for fungi, bacteria, and yeast. Literally causing itchiness, flaking, or folliculitis. Also,

I am 100% open to debates, disagreements, controversy, etc but I don’t do unwarranted mean and nasty. I will block, delete, and report you so fast. Like bye. 😂 #blackwomenlemon8 #blackgirllemon8

Part learning to love your natural hair, is just realizing that every girl doesn’t need to be defined. Sometimes defining curls isn’t even necessary. Our hair doesn’t have to be super curly with product and wet looking for it to be cute. If you’re using a water based curl cream for moisturizing

An itchy scalp is usually caused by buildup, irritation, dryness or inflammation. None of which an oil will sooth. What you need is; A tonic or water based spray leave in. Again, for my 4A, 4B, 4C girlies specifically, oil is not a moisturizer. Oil is a sealant, so if you are not moisturizing

Being a Black women and the urge to cut out hair when we need clarifying, a fresh start, a new adventure should be studied! I bug chopped after my first heart break the summer after graduating highschool and again before I moved states away from home! Something about just rocking a low cut feels

Seeing people called natural hair unkempt really get on my nerves. Bc when you have 4A, 4B, 4C and attempted to wear his natural state, the way it actually grows out of your head, it is called unkempt. Our hair doesn’t need to be gelled down, twisted up, or laid to the sides for it to look cute.

Um, when people complain about wash days being all day, I be so confused as to what y’all constitute as a wash day. Because I’ll be doing all the stuff that y’all be claiming to do it don’t be taking all day. 😂🫠 It take 3 hours at the most. Especially when this is used as such a complaint for na

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I know my people will live and die by Shea moisture, but Shea moisture has done nothing for my hair. I’ve tried many of their products and I have been met with the same results. TRASH. They are just lack luster for my 4B hair. The products feel oily, it’s like the creams and leave ins never seep