How to start a new relationship, according to October Theory.

You can use October Theory as inspiration to start a new relationship, seeing October as a "reset" time of life and being open to good things, similar to really starting the year before the new year.

Let's start together as follows.

1. Review and release the past

The centerpiece of the October theory is to let the abusive out of life. Before starting over, try to use this time to review past relationships.

• Accepting the Truth: Looking at Past Relationships Realistically, What Are the Good Things, and What Are the Problems That Can't Go On

• Decide to end: If you are still in a vague or unhappy relationship, use this month as the "deadline" to decide to end the relationship decisively. Doing so is like "taking turns" to prepare a space for new things to grow.

2. Set new goals clearly

Once you have cleared your mind, the next step is to set goals for a new relationship. Try answering these questions to yourself. Think about it or write it on a paper.

• What kind of person are you looking for?

• What form of relationship do you want?

• In what ways would you like to improve yourself in preparation for a better relationship?

Setting clear goals will help you attract the right people and build relationships that more easily meet your needs.

3. Start with small changes

October Theory is not to wait for fate, but to "act immediately." You don't have to set too big a goal, but to start with small changes that are actually achieved within 90 days before the end of the year.

• Develop Yourself: Start doing new activities such as exercising, learning new skills, or returning to your favorite hobby. Doing this not only increases your confidence, but also increases your chances of meeting new people.

• Give Yourself a Chance: Try opening up to places you've never been, or attending more social events to expand your social circle.

4. Use the power of "starting over."

Use the atmosphere of October as a mental driving force. The sense of seasonal change can inspire you to dare to step out of a safe space and start doing new things. Build a positive attitude and trust that this is a good rhythm for starting a new relationship full of hope.

Applying the October Theory concept, whether you believe in it or not, will help you to spend your late years with a goal and move into a new relationship with greater readiness and self-understanding.

For the author himself, this month the author has begun to love himself by bringing himself back to exercise. At least 3 days a week is good.

Back to control the symptoms, try to refrain from Process Food. It turns out that after 2 weeks, the weight lost 2 kilos. This is my own little proud qua.

And for all the lovely readers, when you have finished reading the story of the beginning here and want you to know if you have started a new relationship or activity this month, please share it in the comments. The green person will try to apply it to your life. Thank you for your advice in advance.

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