Just settled truths. Don't leave happiness to anyone, not even those close to you.🤍

Let me out first that this post is purely our personal feelings and mind set. Who would think? We don't know. Other people's views may be different. But for us, once this is settled, life is much lighter. ☁️

# Grow up and know thatWe shouldn't put happiness on anyone, not even our family, boyfriends, or close friends.

Well, in the past, we often secretly expected that people around us would always understand, support or make us happy. When things didn't go the way they hoped or one day they changed, the most hurt and noid person was ourselves. 🥲

When they got older, they started having more things to think about, and they just came up, and in the end, everyone had a life, a problem, a corner of their own.

💡 the way we are happy now is to recite that

quit expecting = quit being disappointed):

🤍 is a safe zone for yourself. When you're tired or you feel bad, you just hug yourself. Take yourself to eat delicious things. Watch the series, let Joy go fully.

🤍 Always in case, no matter how close, you have to make sure he doesn't get everything to us.

🤍 create happiness on our own, when we rely on ourselves, focus on ourselves more, we start to care less about other people's eyes.

💞 All in all, we still love and care for our peers, just have to bring as much "happiness" and "expectation" back to ourselves as possible. 💖

Has anyone ever had this idea, or been through the point of tiring up with other people, to share or vent? This post is a safe space to talk to. 👇🏼✨

# Grow up and know that # Heal my heart # Share experience # Love yourself