How we see each other

Hey besties! 👋 You've probably seen the 'How We See Each Other' challenge trending, and let me tell you, it's an absolute blast! My best friend and I finally decided to jump on this viral trend, and the results were truly eye-opening – not to mention hilarious. If you're looking for a fun new way to connect with your bestie and get some surprising insights into your friendship, this is it! So, what exactly is the 'How We See Each Other' challenge? It's pretty simple but incredibly insightful. You and your best friend each secretly pick a series of items or concepts that represent the other person. The classic categories are usually ANIMAL, PLACE, PLANT, CHARACTER, SEASON, HOBBY, COLOUR, DRINK, and FOOD. The idea is to see how your perception of your friend aligns (or wonderfully differs!) from how they perceive you. It’s like a fun, interactive personality quiz where you get to guess what your bestie thinks of your vibe! Doing the challenge ourselves was such a riot. For example, when it came to the ANIMAL category for me, my best friend chose a 'baby elephant' because she thinks I’m strong but also super gentle and a bit clumsy – which, okay, I can totally see! Meanwhile, for her, I picked a 'rabbit with flowers' because she’s always so soft, sweet, and brightens up every room she enters. It’s those little details and explanations that make the challenge so special. We also tackled the PLANT category; she thought I was a sturdy 'red rose' (aww!), and I envisioned her as a delicate yet resilient pink flower. The beauty of this challenge lies in the discussions it sparks afterward. You get to ask, "Why did you pick that for me?" and hear their honest, often funny, reasons. It’s not just about the answers themselves, but the shared laughter and deeper understanding that comes with it. We talked about how we see each other's favourite 'PLACE' – she picked a 'tropical beach' for me, saying I always need sunshine, and I imagined her at a 'beach at dusk' because she loves calm, reflective moments. Ready to try it with your own best friend? Here’s a quick guide: Gather your categories: Use the classic nine (ANIMAL, PLACE, PLANT, CHARACTER, SEASON, HOBBY, COLOUR, DRINK, FOOD) or come up with your own! Secretly pick for each other: Without talking, each of you writes down your choices for what represents your best friend in each category. Be honest and think about their personality, quirks, and vibes! Reveal and discuss: This is the best part! Take turns revealing your answers, category by category. Explain why you chose what you did. Be prepared for surprising insights and lots of laughter. Take pictures! Create a fun grid like we did to share your perceptions. This 'best friend perception challenge' isn't just a trend; it's a wonderful way to celebrate your unique bond. You might discover something new about how your friend sees you, or confirm all the lovely things you already suspected. It’s a fantastic icebreaker and a memory-maker. So go on, grab your bestie, and give the 'How We See Each Other' challenge a try! You won't regret it! 🌸