Do we like this new lip stain?! Bc i don't know if im a fan, also this stuff didn't even last 4 oatmeal cookies #lipstain #lipstainviral

Your standards are not a reward people earn when you’re feeling generous. They’re the floor, and the floor doesn’t move because you had a good week or a bad one. The second you let your mood decide what you’ll tolerate, you’ve handed people permission to wait you out until you’re too tired to h

What else should I add to it?! Thank GOD for discount stores like @Five Below or else I would be stuck with a keychain that looks like a man's. #shoppinghaul #shoppingvlog #keychain

There’s a difference between can’t and won’t, and you know damn well which one you’re saying. I’m not talking to the one drowning who’s already doing everything they can. I’m talking to the one who reschedules the same appointment for the fourth time and skips the boring unglamorous shit becaus

Asking for what you want was never greedy. You were trained to lower your standards so you would be easy to keep, and now you are confused about why you're unsatisfied everytime you get into a relationship. Searching online what "bare minimum" is. The women that get called "gold diggers" just s

Sometimes we think about our standards, and how we want to live our lives. It always goes back to what we can do for ourselves, but sometimes it's just what other people can do for you 💖 #standards

Lying is a skill and knowing WHEN to use it is the most important part. I need 10000% honesty in 99% of my relationships but SOMETIMES a white lie here and there is necessary. The real skill is knowing the difference between a lie that protects someone and a lie that controls them. So figure ou

Your kid is not the reason you’re stuck. You are. They’re the reason you don’t get to stay there. Hiding behind your kids feels safer than admitting you’re scared to try and fail. But SHOCKER that comfort is just the bare minimum. The version of you that chases the goal anyway is the one teachi

After looking at those prices they were trying to charge me, I DONT NEED TO SEE, IVE HAD ENOUGH LOOKING. Americas best count your days because ain't no way my -1.25x prescription is $500. #glasses

If you let them curse in public this young how are they supposed to be able to differentiate when it's appropriate to curse in various settings? Like professional settings, settings with high emotions like funerals, versus at home settings or with their friends?? #momtok #raisingkids

Just like rubber bands buttholes don't always go back after being stretched, so just keep that in mind while you fill up your trunk #womenshealth #womensupportingwomen #femininehealth

I didn't realize that when I started sharing my spirituality with her that I would end up being in the middle of it #witchyvibes #spiritually

Being a pet parent can be really difficult sometimes, but skin to fur contact can really help 🫶🏼 I like to self microwave mine at night #catsoftiktok #catmom

If they sound chaotic, GOOD. Sit with them and every single one is really a need for security that “normal” standards are too polite to admit: don’t make me feel small, don’t make me beg for enough, don’t make me perform for someone else’s approval. The delivery is unhinged on purpose, the want

I have been in LOVE with finding the most glittery lip gloss ever, @KIKO Milano has some AMAZING options but sadly they aren't in a squeeze tube 😭 If you have ANY squeeze tube glittery gloss options PLEASE let me know, I'm about to buy beauty supply store lip gloss and put glitter in it Lip

The black gloves just give a bit more ✨ pizazz ✨ Sometimes building a life you love and a life that meets your standards means finding someone who is versatile #wlwcouple #wlwtiktok

A lot of the times nurses aren't worried about the dramatic stuff, we're worried about how casually you treat the basics. Skipping sleep, living on caffeine, never touching sunscreen, calling exhaustion a personality. None of that is hardcore, it's just the below bare minimum self care slowly ca

Never knew what a paper cut would feel like there but thankfully she has amazing hand hygiene and I am VERY on top of my feminine care, or else this would be a VERY different story, Remember prep care is IMPORTANT #wlwcouple #femininehealth

You somehow got convinced that asking for basic decency makes you difficult. Which is complete bullpuckey, that concept just keeps you settling for people who do the absolute least and then expect a medal for it. Standards aren’t a luxury, they’re the bare minimum that you can do for yourself,

Just two black pussies in love with #wlwcouple