You don't get to demand respect while training people to ignore your boundaries. Most of what people call "issues" in a relationship is just tolerance issues. If you keep accepting the bare minimum, that's exactly what life will keep producing. Stop negotiating with behavior that already showed

Dead parents means so many dead ends when it comes to questions, and I have nobody to ask these questions too, I guess I should go light a candle and ask or something #darkhumor

And if you don't know better that's why we are HERE, so follow me so you can learn 💁🏻‍♀️ #girlsgirl #womensupportingwomen

You don't need to sit with confusion or quietly Google shit at 2am hoping for reassurance that never really fucking satisfies you. Most of these "embarrassing" questions are actually way more common than we've been led to believe. And to prove that I'm answering them from a nurse perspective. S

Your favorite Internet mom might hate me for this Lucky for me I'm not interested in following parenting trends just because they're popular online. I believe in rejecting the bare minimum and building a life, home, and family culture that actually meets your standards. That means thinking fo

Dating is little a romantic version of trial and error, the more tries the more SUCCESS! Standards, boundaries, while you might learn the basics from family and your upbringing if you're lucky. It's okay to be learning everything from scratch, but you'll never figure it out if you don't maxi

Some of y'all were taught that asking questions ruined the vibe. When in reality, it protects your peace. Attraction without discernment is just gambling your time, health, and safety. The bare minimum has been normalized for so long that basic consideration now looks like "high maintenance". A

I'm not telling the story for sympathy, I'm telling you because no one fucking told me. If someone had named it back, then, control, coercion, having your personality, completely erased, I might have fucking left sooner. But they didn't, which is why l am here to tell you. Your standards aren

Society tells you good love is rare. It's not, what's rare is people willing to raise their standards high enough to actually receive it. You're not unlucky, and you're not "picking the wrong people". You're tolerating the bear fucking minimum and calling it commitment. this is not a game of

Hot take, but I don't understand it, and maybe that's just because I'm an American, and I'm used to paying monthly. But if going to the gym and paying 30 bucks a month versus paying eight euros a week is the same price, then why would you phrase it like that? probably because it makes it sound

How many disinfecting bottles have instructions on the back FOR A REASON. Disinfectants, kill viruses and bacteria that has left on surfaces but that only happens if the sprays giving enough time to actually be effective. Which, depending on the disinfectant could be anywhere from 2 to 5 minute

I have to know, do you believe in familiars? If so, do you have a personal story because I would love to know! #witchytok #witchy

There is a version of love that does not require you to eat fucking mold. There is a version of a partner who shows up clean, who doesn’t ask you to eat around their disrespect, their lies, their forgetfulness, their “I didn’t mean it like that.” You stopped believing that version was available

Applying standards to your life starts with what you build inside your own fucking home, inside your own fucking body, and inside your own fucking head. We spend so much time talking about what we won't accept for other people while completely disregarding the inner work. The quality of your lif

If you're in adult, and you don't have hobbies, your life probably feels incredibly dragging and like you're constantly in survival mode. The first step to actually being able to enjoy life again, is to finding an activity that you actually enjoy, something that makes you excited to get out of b

Most days, eating still feels like a problem to solve rather than a need to meet. I recently started going to the gym and my hunger is coming back louder than ever and I dont know how to handle it. 1 in 5 women will struggle with an eating disorder in their lifetime and most of us were never ta

#stitch with @mgsmallz I have never seen a tornado in person, but I've seen lots of videos and movies about them. So really I'm a cinematic expert. And I just feel like there's a better alternative to the architecture of homes and areas like these. Because tornadoes blow so many homes away a y

I lived through interrogations like this for years. And I am telling you that, you should not have to fucking rehearse your own life before walking through the front door. Your partner is supposed to be your damn safe place, not someone you have to report to like you did something wrong. They ar

When I left gas was 2.60 a gallon on the worst day 😭, I don't even know how you guys are affording to drive with these prices?? Especially the West Coast because you guys probably pay like 6 to 8 dollars a gallon. That's insane, is there anything positive going on in the states right now??

More often than that. Every time I see someone have an excuse for why they don't feel the way that they want to feel, or why they don't act the way they want to act, or why they don't eat the way they want to eat, is because they are standing in their own way. You cannot blame your lack of confiden