My Safe Spot in my Happy Place 🎶

Daddy sent me this video the other day from his front porch and you can hear mama’s windchimes.

My happy place is their house. In EMDR when I have to put things in my container, I have to end up on the front porch swing looking out on the beautiful landscape of their acreage and the dairy farm on the hill before I feel safe from what I’ve placed in my container.

That porch swing is my comfort spot and oddly enough, it was the last place of comfort before all of my medical trauma started just hours before leaving that swing on that fateful day.

#happyplace #traumarecovery #raredisease #familialpolyposis #familialadenomatouspolyposis

2025/1/12 Edited to

... Read moreFinding comfort in our happy places is essential for emotional wellbeing, especially during challenging times. Comfort spots can act as safe havens, helping us process our emotions and experiences. The concept of a 'happy place' often refers to a physical location or a mental space where one feels safe and at ease. Research shows that spending time in comforting environments can promote relaxation and reduce stress levels. One effective technique for managing trauma is EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), which helps individuals process distressing memories and emotions. This approach can be particularly beneficial for those dealing with medical trauma or loss. Having a tangible comfort spot—like a beloved porch swing—can enhance the healing experience, providing a mental anchor during therapy sessions. Additionally, incorporating mindful practices while in these spaces can further enhance their soothing effect. Consider engaging in deep breathing, listening to calming sounds, or reflecting on positive memories in your happy place. Engaging all senses in these environments can deepen the sense of security and relaxation. Ultimately, understanding the importance of personal safe zones encourages us to seek out and cherish these moments. No matter where your happy place may be, it holds the potential to be a powerful ally during your journey of healing and self-discovery.

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