WHY DID I GO BALD???

Hair carries energy

Hair carries energy

Hair carries energy

I went through a time in my life where I felt as though I was trapped within a version of myself that no longer existed.

On independence day, 2020 (excellent choice of day might I say) I decided to set myself free.

When I cut off my hair, I felt so much freer. It literally felt like I was reinventing myself, I felt like a brand new person that I got to define.

There’s so much identity that I tied to my hair all throughout my life. By taking that away, I was faced with the person I really was without my hair. And I fell so so deeply in love with this person.

Hair did not hold me back, I was the one holding me back. But not having hair to hide behind helped me to see that and confront it. I went from my biggest limiter to my biggest fan.

Obviously there’s more to this than hair, but for me and my journey the hair was such a big part of how I saw myself that it was absolutely beneficial for me to reset without it. I am growing my hair out now with love, care and mindfulness of the energy I carry or allow around it.

I would still 100% cut it all off again if it called to me many years from now.

I have discovered that I am absolutely stunning, inside and out, with or without hair. To me, this is absolutely priceless. It showed me my own resilience and flexibility. It showed me there are no limits to the ways human beings can be so beautiful.

It showed me, there’s no limit to being me.

I am so much more than my hair

#glowup #lemon8challenge #letschat #shaveyourhead #shavedhead #bald #baldbabe #baldbaddie #spirituality

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2024/7/21 Edited to

... Read moreIt’s amazing how much of our identity we tie to our hair, isn’t it? Like many of you, I discovered that letting go of my hair wasn't just about a physical change; it was a profound personal transformation. The original post beautifully captures the emotional and spiritual liberation of embracing a shaved head, but I wanted to share a bit more about what this journey can look like for others, and some practical insights I’ve gained. For many women, the decision to go bald isn't always about a spiritual awakening. Sometimes, it's a powerful response to medical challenges like alopecia or chemotherapy, where taking control of hair loss becomes an act of defiance and empowerment. For others, it's a bold fashion statement, a way to express individuality and challenge conventional beauty standards. And let's be honest, for some, it’s simply about the sheer convenience and freedom from daily hair routines! Regardless of the 'why,' the common thread is often a desire for authenticity and self-redefinition. Thinking about taking the plunge and getting a shaved head? It’s a mix of excitement and nerves! Before the big chop, I spent time visualizing myself without hair, looking at photos of other beautiful bald women, and talking to friends. Mentally preparing yourself for the change, and for the reactions of others (both positive and negative), is key. It’s also a good idea to think about how you’ll care for your scalp – sun protection is a must, and a good moisturizer becomes your new best friend! Living with a shaved head is a continual journey of newfound freedom. You learn to appreciate your facial features in a new way, and accessories like bold earrings, stylish scarves, or hats become incredible tools for expression. I’ve found that my confidence has soared because I’m no longer hiding behind my hair. It pushes you to truly embody your 'bald energy' – that radiant self-assurance that comes from knowing you are stunning, inside and out, with or without hair. It’s about owning your look and realizing that true beauty isn't confined to a specific hairstyle. One of the most surprising and wonderful parts of this journey has been connecting with other women who’ve also embraced baldness. There's a whole community out there of 'bald babes' and 'bald girls' who understand the unique challenges and incredible empowerment that comes with this choice. Sharing stories, tips, and encouragement makes the experience even richer. If you're on the fence, remember: hair grows back. But the lessons you learn about yourself, your resilience, and your immense capacity for self-love? Those are priceless and will stay with you forever.

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Alyssia

Your look gorgeous ❤️my family has a tradition when something tragic happens or someone close to you dies you cut your hair. I’m Native American so I completely agree that hair holds energy

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natalia

This is so awesome. I've heard lots of people chopping their hair and donating it. I feel like this would be amazing but also I love my hair so much but sometimes I really do just want to chop it

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