leaving blinks fandom
just a genuine questions
how many of yall are a blinks since day 1 and had already left the fandom due to personal reasons / you felt like they no longer meet up to your expectation?
coz this is me rn , i have been their fan since day 1 but coz of their recent concert in sg make me disappointed so i felt like leaving the fandom. but i have already brought their albums and merch , both groups and solo and if i throw away , my hearts gonna be pain coz is super expensive 😭 especially lisa photobook . i tried to sell it too but i guess not many ppl want it coz maybe they already left the fandom or just not interested (idk , just guessing) but everytime when i look at the albums/merch , i have this urge of throwing it away or hiding it somewhere where is not visible to me
As someone who has been a BLINK from the very beginning, I completely understand the complex feelings involved in considering leaving a fandom that once meant so much. Over the years, being a fan isn’t just about following music, it’s about the emotional connection, shared excitement, and collecting memorabilia that feels like treasured memories. When disappointments happen, such as an underwhelming concert experience like the recent one in Singapore, it can cause deep disillusionment. Many BLINKs, myself included, have faced this inner conflict of wanting to step back but feeling attached due to the expensive and meaningful albums and merchandise bought along the way. It’s tough because these items are symbols of joyful moments and hard work supporting the group through thick and thin. The Lisa photobook, for example, isn’t just a collection of photos; it’s a piece of our fandom journey. What helped me was acknowledging that it’s okay for fandom feelings to evolve. Leaving a fandom doesn’t mean forgetting the good times; it means prioritizing your own emotional well-being. Some fans try to sell their merch, but when the market shrinks because others have left too, it can feel isolating. Instead, I found comfort in creatively repurposing or storing these items rather than discarding them outright. Also, connecting with others who understand these mixed emotions can be healing. Online communities where fans openly share their thoughts about loyalty, fandom changes, and personal growth are invaluable. It reminded me that fandom isn’t permanent; it’s a chapter in life that can close gently, allowing space for new passions. Ultimately, if you’re feeling like leaving the fandom, remember it’s a personal choice—not a failure. Nobody owes endless devotion, especially if the fandom or recent experiences no longer bring joy. Cherishing the positive memories while moving forward can lead to peace of mind and perhaps even new fandom adventures in the future.
Dear Ling Ling,such a pity to throw it away after all that effort.Deep inside you still might have an inch bit of affection.Probably you could keep a few as memento and offer the rest online at discounted prices.And don't drown too much in your sorrow.You're most likely not the only One disappointed.