One of the easiest ways for me to shift my emotional state is through the love I feel for my little family. Taking a moment to truly connect with that feeling helps me move into a more elevated emotional state. I’m so grateful for everything my animals give me. They create so many little mome

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🦇🖤🦇 . . #over40fashion #softgoth #alternativestyle

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At 41, I wear what I like, what makes me feel good, and what feels like me. That’s enough. 🖤 . . . #over40fashion #alternativestyle #softgoth #summeroutfits #over40style

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Two years ago, I couldn’t imagine wearing my natural hair like this. Now I’m completely in love with it 🖤 . . .

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Summer outfits have been getting a lot simpler lately. The goal isn’t to look perfect. It’s to stay comfortable, get things done and still feel like myself. Black, always. 🖤 #alternativestyle #softgoth #summeroutfits #gothicstyle #alternative

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Checking in on my little bats… are we all surviving this heat? 🖤 . . . #alternativestyle #softgoth #summer2026 #summeroutfits #gothicstyle

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Stay hydrated, little bats, we got this 🖤 . . . #alternativestyle #softgoth #summer2026 #summeroutfits #alternative

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Vai Brasil 💚🇧🇷💛 . . . #brasil #brasil🇧🇷 #brasileirosnoseua

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At 41, this is what I wore for Philly Pride this past Sunday 🖤🌈 #pride2026 #pride #alternativefashion #gothgirl #over40fashion

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I thought I was changing my clothes, turns out I was changing my life 🖤 #womanover40 #alternativestyle #styletransformation #reinventingmyself #gothicstyle

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41, all black & emotionally attached to thrift stores 🖤 . #gothgirl #altgirl #millenials #over40fashion #alternativefashion

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to my little bats who spent years trying to look “acceptable” instead of authentic… I see you 🖤🦇 . . . #millenials #xennial #over40fashion #eldermillennial #gothicstyle

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this dress survived a very hot saturday afternoon, a kids birthday party and a bottle of tempranillo. 😁🖤 . . . #softgoth #alternativefashion #springoutfit #over40fashion #gothicstyle

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Mother’s Day outfit 🖤 The weather was perfect for a silk shirt, and I took my mom to a Filipino restaurant she ended up loving. For the first time in years, my brother, my parents and I were all together again. At 41, I feel like I’m slowly building a new relationship with my mom. Softer.

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At 41, this is what I actually wore in April 🕸️🖤

april felt different in a quiet way, I slowed things down, without forcing it, spent more time at home, with my cats, with my person… and with myself. This was also the first month I actually leaned into fashion here, not trends just what I really wear. less performance, more honesty. Tried

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one of those pieces I kept saving for no reason, not anymore! 🖤 . . . #blackdress #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth #spring

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just getting things done today 🖤 . . . #outfitoftheday #womanover40 #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth

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just getting things done today 🖤 . . . #over40style #womanover40 #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth

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just getting things done today 🖤 . . . #over40style #womanover40 #over40fashion #alternativefashion #softgoth

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