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Reason for deciding to date a close friend as a boyfriend

: Can you date a close friend?

: Yeah.

: Dating a close friend as a boyfriend and not afraid that one day will lose a friend?

: Can answer that no, because at that time the school will finish at the end of the school, just like if breaking up, probably already dispersed, hahahaha

: Will dating a close friend work?

: For our partner, it works. We think that if there are people close to us who are many things appropriately good enough to be a girlfriend, then where is it stuck? It's good to die, do not have to go to the TARDIS, haha. But dating then it must be a person who can grow up together. Can also have the same goal to develop in the next order

We and our girlfriend have been dating since high school until we decided to get married at the age of 30. For us, the advantages of dating friends as a girlfriend are

1. Know your parents, where you live, what you do, even if you don't get details, but you know.

2. Know the gut, know the belly, know the quirks, just open your mouth and know what to say.

3. Don't start from 0 because you already know many things. Like what, don't like what?

4. Reduce the pressure of early dating, create less pictures because it has been seen 70%.

5. When studying at the same place, when coming home to study together, very comfortable.

6. Being a girlfriend and close friend in the same person is very good. Well, many things do not have to adjust, like to eat the same, travel the same, similar lifestyle, gradually grow up together, like seeing many years, and then decide to have a background from the same place, talk about, know about gossip, who the girlfriend took, hahahaha, and of course, always sided with us.

# Have a girlfriend as a close friend # Love experience # Best friend

2025/11/15 Edited to

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