Poor is scary, but not knowing anything from it is scarier.
If anyone has ever experienced coming from a troubled family, they probably understand how bad the hardship is, but many people, many families, have a good mindset despite the hardship of being born, but try to scramble to make everyone's well-being better like helping the whole family. The people in the house have the same goal, and finally they will end up happy.
But some houses are the opposite.) Let me tell you from our own experiences.) Has everyone ever wondered why some people endure ten years of hardship without thinking of changing anything?
Many like to say, "At home until you have to send your children to school," this sentence seems to be a great sacrifice, but it will immediately become frightening...If you graduate one day, but the life of the speaker is "even worse,"
1. A "standstill" poverty is recklessness.
Most people use poverty as a "driving force" to get away from it, but some use poverty as a "shield of self-defense."
Used as an excuse not to struggle.
Use it as a reason not to be responsible for your own life.
In the end, when there is no "burden on children," he just allows himself to sink more, because he has never learned how to "find" or "build," only to wait "and" be patient. "
2. When "hardship" becomes "habituation"
The scariest is that people are so "used to starvation" that they feel it's normal.
Limited eating became a lifestyle.
Not having money became a fake pride, "I can bear it."
When people stop yearning for success, they stop trying and become completely stagnant.
3. Painful Lesson: Poverty is not a gift to pass on. If we get through poverty, the first thing we should do is learn how not to go back to that point.
Downtime, downtime, downtime, quitting problems, not having the ability to manage the debts they make or try to deal with them.
Changing your self-management, even half as good, is almost 100% "dependency" after you graduate, without money to save, is a time bomb for your children, not a gratitude to bear, but the "selfishness" of adults learning how to be the only recipients.
If today we see parents refusing to move on, what we have to do is not to carry them on our backs until we can't walk, but to "kick ourselves out of this cycle" to make it to the end of our generation.
Learning from poverty is telling myself, "I will not live like that and will not allow my loved ones to go back to that."