Everything feels great when we’re physically together. He’s attentive, affectionate, and even blocks women in front of me, which makes me feel like he’s fully committed. But the moment we’re apart… it’s a completely different story. He responds to random women, gives out his number, keeps chatti

My boyfriend keeps making plans for “us” without asking me — brunches, dinners, classes — and then gets upset when I can’t drop everything. My boyfriend (29M) and I (26F) have been together for almost two years, and overall things are good — except for one issue that’s really starting to bother

So I showed my boyfriend Everything Everywhere All At Once — literally one of my comfort movies, one I’ve cried over, obsessed about, quoted, everything. And the SECOND it ended he goes, “I didn’t like it.” Like… immediately. No pause. No “let me think about it.” Just boom. 😂 He said he did

our relationship has been really rocky the past couple months. He’s currently in NYC visiting a straight female friend he met while traveling a few years back. When we first got together, he once asked if it was okay to visit her and share her bed to save money, and I told him that was a clear boun

I had my gallbladder removed this week. Recovery has been rough — I can’t get in and out of bed on my own, my mom has to help me with everything, and I’m basically immobilized. My boyfriend of 9 months hasn’t been around. He told me he wouldn’t stay with me during recovery because “there’s no po

I love my boyfriend—he’s honestly amazing in every way. But when it comes to buying him gifts, I feel like I’m in a totally different universe. For holidays and birthdays, he spoils me with flowers, fancy dinners, spa experiences—the whole romantic vibe. Meanwhile, when I try to be romantic, he

So my boyfriend brought up marriage the other day, and I thought we were on the same page—but as soon as he started talking about it, things got super weird. It felt like we went from casual “future talk” to this heavy, intense conversation, and I didn’t know how to react. Part of me is excited

just got back into dating after a long break, and honestly… it’s exhausting. Every single guy I’ve gone on a date with looks nothing like his pictures. Like, sure, it’s him, but it’s like I was wearing some “premium beer-goggles” set. I’m totally transparent about my looks and personality, but it f

Just started my freshman year, and my roommate and I get along… mostly. The problem? I keep waking him up at night, even though I’m doing everything he asked. I’m in a school play, so my homework doesn’t start until after 10pm. After rehearsal, I hit the library until midnight, sometimes finish in

Last week I had one of the worst period days ever — cramps so bad I was dizzy, nauseous, and just curled up in bed. I texted my boyfriend hoping for a little empathy, and he said, “It’s just cramps, my sister gets them and they’re not that bad.” I was shocked. I tried explaining that it’s not a sim

A couple days late, so I told my boyfriend — thinking honesty was the best move. Instead, he got really quiet and distant, saying he’s uncomfortable. I totally get that this can be a stressful moment for both of us, but I also feel pushed aside when he ignores me. I didn’t want to nag, but I also n

So I’m working the floor, already exhausted, when this woman walks out of the fitting room smiling like nothing happened. I go in right after her… and it’s a crime scene. Clothes everywhere. Hangers broken. Shirts inside out. It looked like a tornado auditioned for a reality show. And the wors

She came in almost every day same coffee order, same attitude.🥸🥸🥸 Never smiled, never said hi, just tossed her card on the counter and rolled her eyes if I took too long. Everyone dreaded serving her, but I always tried to stay polite. One morning, she walked in looking different. Tired. Quiet.

Me and my fiancé are planning our wedding around 75 guests, $50k total — which, in our area, is honestly pretty average. But lately, he keeps making comments about how much cheaper our friends’ wedding was. They did everything DIY for around $15k (three years ago!), and now I can’t stop feeling gui

Our wedding is coming up soon, and my fiancé still doesn’t know basic details like the color theme, the dinner menu, or even the timeline for the day. Every time I try to update him, he just says, “Whatever you want, babe.” At first it didn’t bother me, but now it’s starting to feel like I’m pla

It drives me crazy when one partner uses “I worked all day” as an excuse to avoid chores especially when both people work full time. Like yes, we’re both tired. But dishes, laundry, and trash don’t magically do themselves. I’m not saying chores need to be perfectly 50/50 every single day, but it

So my bf and I are taking a family vacation soon — the area is actually where I want to move one day. Out of nowhere, he asked me to wear a fake engagement ring during the trip so “locals don’t think they have a chance.” The thing is… we are NOT engaged. We’ve talked about marriage and kids some

Some days it just feels like too much working, cleaning, errands, pets, trying to eat right, thinking about moving or taking classes, all while trying to have a life. It’s like you blink and suddenly your to-do list tripled overnight. I’ve been trying to remind myself it’s okay to slow down take

I used to wake up and instantly grab my phone. Just 30 minutes of scrolling, nothing crazy right? Wrong. It drained me before my day even started. Zero motivation, brain fog, and honestly I felt like crap every morning. One day I promised myself no phone in the morning for 3 days. Managed to do

We’ve lived together for 2, and the deal was he’d pay me half of the rent ($375) while I covered everything else since I earn more. Problem is, he hasn’t paid rent in 8 months. I’ve been paying for rent (it comes straight out of my paycheck), groceries, bills, essentials… literally everything. W