ABSOLUTELY BE OK DOING THIS

2025/12/12 Edited to

... Read moreIt's important to understand that maintaining personal well-being sometimes means making difficult decisions about relationships, even those with family. Toxic family members can create emotional stress, anxiety, and hinder your happiness. The saying "Blood ain't thicker than peace of mind" reminds us that family connections should not come at the expense of your mental health. Many people struggle with guilt or societal expectations when considering distancing themselves from toxic relatives. However, setting healthy boundaries is a form of self-care that allows you to cultivate a supporting environment where you can thrive. You don't have to tolerate manipulation, abuse, or constant negativity just because of shared genetics. Taking this step might involve gradually reducing contact, seeking support from trusted friends or professionals, and focusing on healing your emotional wounds. Remember, honoring your peace of mind promotes healthier relationships overall. Surrounding yourself with uplifting and nurturing individuals enables growth and happiness. If you find yourself justifying staying in harmful family dynamics, try reflecting on your own emotional needs and future well-being. Life is too short to carry unnecessary burdens. Prioritize your mental health by recognizing that it’s okay — even necessary — to cut ties with toxicity and choose peace instead.

20 comments

Ms.Bayou77's images
Ms.Bayou77

Yes it is ok to cut off toxic family members, if you want to have peace. ✌🏽

See more comments

Related posts

dynamic leg warmups you need to be doing
it’s absolutely essential that you warm up your legs if you want to have a long, successful lifting journey! Properly warming up helps you recover quicker, prevent injury, and prep your muscles for a good lift! If you’re struggling with moving up in weight, can’t get a good connection with c
Jules

Jules

62 likes

4 things college kids NEED to be doing this summer
There's about TWO MONTHS left until colleges start back up. I always like to be super prepared for all of my classes. Some people don't like to prep so early BUT there are things college students absolutely NEED to be doing this summer. Getting ahead (even just a little bit) gives you a
eden 🪼

eden 🪼

13 likes

I’ve been doing it wrong this entire time!
Part 4 of PROJECT GLOW UP 🫧🎧🎀 can following a 5 minute ab challenge every day for a week actually get you a snatched waist? 👀 Things I learned: - core workouts > an workouts - a 5 min core circuit CAN actually work if incorporated into a existing workout routine the fact that by the en
Madison Haynes

Madison Haynes

1597 likes

✨ADHD✨ … what was I doing
In or out, every doorway is a risk at this point 🙃 #adhd #adhdmind #adhdinwomen #adhdfocus #adhdstruggles
Andrea Celine✨

Andrea Celine✨

42 likes

i absolutely LOVEEE doing this style 😍
bob length invisible locs 🔥. BOOK NOW !! #beautifullocks #dreadlockextensions #bodytransformation #lemon8bookclub #Lemon8Diary
sugaarlocs

sugaarlocs

1032 likes

I absolutely LOVE doing this!!
⭐️Overall rating: 10/10:This craft is so easy, fun, and cute! #homeadebookmarks #Lemon8 #Lemon8fyp #booklemon8 #foryoupage
𝓙𝓸𝓵𝓮𝓷𝓮~ 📖

𝓙𝓸𝓵𝓮𝓷𝓮~ 📖

10 likes

A person looks out a window at a Japanese landscape. The text overlay reads 'Things I will be doing on my next trip to Japan,' introducing travel tips.
A train station screen and a phone display transit details, illustrating the decision not to get a JR Pass due to a significant price increase and individual ticket savings.
Various hotel toiletries, including brushes and small bottles, are neatly arranged, supporting the tip to bring fewer personal care items on future trips.
Things I will be doing on my next trip to Japan
I returned from Japan in April of 2024 and these are a few things that I will definitely be doing again —or I learned (while I was there) that I want do differently. 🇯🇵 If you’re from my #TikTok page, omg hello!! & if you’re new to my page, hello!! I absolutely love organizing/planning
mdvmitarashi

mdvmitarashi

138 likes

things i’m doing to make life more whimsical ꒰ঌ ໒꒱
save my favorite ways to make life more full of whimsy! i absolutely adore collecting stamps for every place i’ve been to in my tabi travel journal <3 anyone have other recs? #moodbooster #productiveday #whimsical #pinterestgirl #summer
breanna🪽

breanna🪽

132 likes

Sometimes doing the bare minimum for Locs works
Love when my Locs look healthy and full. 2 1/2 years later and they are just thriving💕 When I first started my Loc journey I used to oil regularly, wrap them up, grease them, spritz them all day, go to salon every 3 months and just follow a lot of stuff I saw online since it was new to me and I
Renee Nikole

Renee Nikole

79 likes

Doing my hair is so therapeutic to me
My happy place is in front of the mirror with my favorite hair products in hand. 🤭 Styling my natural hair is so therapeutic. I enjoy creating new looks that let my creative side shine, although it’s challenging 💡 Doing my hair makes me feel empowered and confident! ⭐️Overall rating: 10/10 It'
Ssamyjusofine💌

Ssamyjusofine💌

171 likes

Your Doing Amazing ✨✨✨🌸🌸🌸
#prettyself #motherhood #motivationdaily
DigitalBabe

DigitalBabe

9 likes

Cozy hobbies I’m doing instead of doomscrolling ✨
Because it really be that damn phone lol #coloringtherapy #cozyhobbies #coloringbooksforadults
Marti

Marti

41 likes

things i’ve noticed since doing Pilates regularly
where are my fellow pilates princesses? I started going to a pilates class once a week back in march and I absolutely love it! things I've noticed since starting pilates: -stronger core -better mind muscle connection -better lifts -patience -boosted self confidence -change in my
Bee 🐝

Bee 🐝

44 likes

Living his best life doing absolutely nothing 🐶
#dog💗
milothefluffy0

milothefluffy0

43 likes

A hand holds a yellow bottle of Sulfur8 Deep Cleaning Shampoo, labeled for all hair types, removing dandruff flakes, and restoring pH balance. Text overlays promote it as the "most trusted shampoo for dandruff" and "best clarifying shampoo" for "flaky scalp girlies," calling it an "oldie but goldie product."
Grandma knew what she was doing with this one! 💁🏽‍♀️
Tell me why I just blacked out in the hair care aisle and grabbed this classic yellow bottle like I was eight years old sitting between my mama’s knees on a Sunday evening? Sulfur8 Deep Cleaning Shampoo—the one and only. No active sulfur, but somehow the scent still unlocked childhood memories and
Urstylistbestie

Urstylistbestie

201 likes

STOP what you’re doing…
My new TUL gel pens just entered the chat! Bright colors? Check! Smooth as butter? Check! 0.7mm magic? Absolutely! I’m obsessed with how cute and comfy these are — only thing missing is the metal barrel vibe from my metallic pack. Smear test coming soon, so we’ll see how they really hold up!
Jaypearls

Jaypearls

152 likes

Mentally Stable? Debatable. Evolving? Absolutely.
You can be healing… and still be the one who hurt them. You can be the reason something broke, and still be the reason it doesn’t break again. Read that again. I wasn’t perfect. I was triggered. I overreacted. I was reacting. That doesn’t excuse it— But it explains it. I wasn’t evil. I
Houston🤍🫶🏼

Houston🤍🫶🏼

11 likes

moms are earning 300-900$ days doing this
#makemoneyonline #sidehustle #sahm #workfromhome #digitalmarketing
Caitlin

Caitlin

20 likes

Am I really doing this?
Absolutely. The past year a fellow sister in Christ I follow on social media bought a used she reads truth Bible at her local goodwill and loved the added notes. However she loved the Bible she was already in and wanted to keep adding and building to it. At first with a pair of scissors and sha
PinkLemonade

PinkLemonade

19 likes

Everything I’m doing to TTC with a chronic illness… month one!
well… today is the last day of my first fertility window where we’re actually getting to TRY the old fashioned way. i’m not crying, you’re crying!!!! never in a million years did I think we’d ever get to have this chapter of life 🥹 what I’ve found in the last few weeks is that everyone’s differe
Alexandra Wildeson

Alexandra Wildeson

2 likes

Here’s a few baby products i absolutely ❤️
becoming a mama has made me realize how hard it is to find better alternatives when it comes to medicines, household products and food for your little one. after doing tons of research and experimenting with many different alternatives, here are a few items i found that are safe and effective for m
ellie

ellie

2750 likes

A collection of three cameras: a black Canon DSLR, a black 4K Ultra HD compact camera, and a lavender Sony ZV-1 with a Zeiss lens, displayed on a silver satin fabric.
A hand holds a black Canon T6 DSLR camera with an 18-55mm lens, featuring a Canon strap, against a silver satin background.
A hand holds the back of a black Canon DSLR camera, showing its screen and control buttons like ISO, SET, and MENU, on a silver satin background.
Camera collection so far!! Absolutely love!✨
Got all these cameras to take memory pictures with my son! When we are able to finally take some trips together!!✨♥️🙏🏽 I loveeee them all I think every woman should have a digital camera no matter if it’s cheap or expensive they are amazing and fun to have!!🌟☺️ PS! Let me know if there is any co
Hannita🧿🩵💙

Hannita🧿🩵💙

73 likes

A title slide with the text "Characters I Absolutely Love!" in a curved font. Below, a character with pink and blonde hair, blue lipstick, and a yellow leopard print jacket stands under a streetlamp with a golden halo above their head. The Lemon8 logo is in the bottom left.
A character profile for Midari Ikishima from Kakegurui. The main image shows her with a gun, smiling maniacally. Smaller images show her with bandaged eyes. Text describes her as a crazy character the user loves, calling her their "whole wife."
A character profile for Numbuh 5 from Codename: Kids Next Door. The image features a cartoon drawing of Numbuh 5 wearing a red hat and large hoop earrings. Text expresses love for her vibe, wishing to cosplay her, and appreciating her full name.
Characters I Absolutely Love! Pt.1
🤎 Doing this made me realize how much damn media I consume LMAO 🤣 I love every one of these characters so much omg! 🤎 Is there a running theme with the characters I like 🤔 I also had to put movies, shows, etc into a spin wheel and some of these I have multiple favorite characters 🥰 🤎 I finished t
Jay or Star🩵

Jay or Star🩵

13 likes

🥐 This Sandwich Doing the MOST… and I love it 😭✨
I just wanted an egg and cheese sandwich… but clearly I don’t know how to act. Because why did I add a whole cheese crust, microgreens, tomatoes, smoked cheese… on a croissant?? Like ma’am… pick a struggle. This sandwich said: “Basic? Absolutely not.” ⸻ 🥗 Ingredients • Bu
Yvette

Yvette

9 likes

A person in a biker jacket next to a motorcycle, with text asking 'What if you never sleep anywhere else... Until one day you fall asleep on your biker neighbors' couch 🥺'. It promotes the book 'Detour' by A Marie.
A person in a biker jacket next to a motorcycle, overlaid with a book excerpt where the narrator hears a whispered 'can we keep you?' while falling asleep. It's from 'Detour' by A Marie.
A person in a biker jacket next to a motorcycle, with a book excerpt describing Coty carrying the narrator to his room. This is from the romance novel 'Detour' by A Marie.
“I absolutely LOVE the Creekwood boys.”
I just moved next to 3 bad boys…1 of them wants me all to himself. Detour by A Marie Small town romance Forced proximity Biker MMC Feisty FMC Slow burn HFN #bookgirlie #bookrecommendations #booktok #readers #lemon8bookclub
books + bikers

books + bikers

19 likes

A woman in sunglasses and a blue top with a black ruffled overlay appears distressed, leaning on someone. Overlay text reads "MASIKA'S GRIEF IS JUST CONTENT" with icons of a camera, phone, and film camera, suggesting public display of emotion.
A woman in sunglasses, wearing a blue top and black ruffled overlay, sits in a vehicle, holding a tissue and appearing to cry or express strong emotion. Two children are resting nearby.
A woman in sunglasses, a blue top, and gold chains appears distressed, embracing a child with braided hair who also looks upset. A man's head is visible in the background.
Is She Doing Too Much? 😭😩
Swipe through the pictures y’all and tell me if her showcasing her grief like this fees genuine or does it just feel like content? Bc they are absolutely dragging her on social media for posting these. Now I do love a little RIP memoriam post but falling out like this for Instagram in insane! But t
L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

26 likes

Absolutely no idea what this is all about 🤷‍♀️🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋
Just experimenting as I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing 🤷‍♀️this is me and my mum 🤣🤣🤣🤷‍♀️
Charlie girl

Charlie girl

45 likes

Cheer pictures i absolutely adore!!!
I have been doing cheer for 8 years now and I just love some of the pictures they get! #cheer #goodpicture
Lauren_pooks

Lauren_pooks

15 likes

EVEN MY CEREAL SAYS IM DOING GREAT
“Did anyone else know Cheerios has daily affirmations on the box?? Did I need this today? Yes. Did I expect it from cereal? Absolutely not.” What affirmation do you need to hear today? 👇🏻👇🏻 #dailyaffirmations #povs #littlethings #cereal #fyp
Beachbum16

Beachbum16

3 likes

Stop doing things - if you wanna be successful 💪🏼🔥🤝🏼
Stability is built on maintenance, not motivation.
Courtney

Courtney

10 likes

God knows What He’s doing!!
I was definitely stressing the other day about things that I have absolutely no control over! I usually tend to sit in my anxiety and let it fester, smh. I reached out to my church friend group asking for prayer. Then I prayed and started talking to God and said “you know how impatient I get, pleas
Ashley

Ashley

13 likes

Things I’m doing in my *soft girl* era 📖
Tips for those who want to slow down, focus on themselves, love on their wellbeing, and realign themselves with their happiness ✨ I think it’s so important to give yourself the space that you need to ground yourself, spend time with yourself, and love on the body that has been carrying you aroun
fromcheywithlove

fromcheywithlove

64 likes

absolutely nothing but the absolute truth 🙌
keep striving to be a better you always...
iam_mztrish💋a.ka. Ladee Virgo

iam_mztrish💋a.ka. Ladee Virgo

31 likes

An overhead view of various white hair care bottles from the Innersense brand and one green bottle, arranged on a dark surface. The image is titled 'Clean Girl Wellness Tips'.
A hand holds two skincare bottles, a cleansing oil and a moisturizing lotion, with blue caps. The text highlights the importance of a skincare routine, especially for gym enthusiasts.
A hand holds two small serum bottles, one hyaluronic acid and one niacinamide, with dropper tops. The text reminds viewers to include serums in their skincare routine.
Wellness Reset | 3 New Things I’m Doing For Myself
I've had a bit of a mental shift lately and wanted to start changing a few things that I feel will bring me a lot of peace. 🥹 I'm still doing my morning stretches and working out but a few of my routine self care routines have been neglected to say the least. 😅 Here's what's chan
Erika Quarles

Erika Quarles

15 likes

5 things you’re doing WRONG with low porosity hair
If your low porosity hair is always dry, frizzy, or not absorbing anything, you might be making one of these mistakes without realizing it. Low porosity hair behaves differently. It doesn’t like heavy products, it hates being rushed, and it absolutely needs clean hair + proper hydration layerin
Mushrm

Mushrm

151 likes

To all the Content Mommies,How yall doing?🌸
Dear Lemon8 diary: Hi, my name is Adrienne , I am a 33 year old full time single mother, full time student, full time employee and I create content. I’m finding it hard trying to juggle it all and keep up on my content schedule. I’m a skin care influencer and even though I recently niched down,
🌻AjAdoreme

🌻AjAdoreme

43 likes

You're ok - you just need a little help
I got in this business to see if I could change my life a little and see how many others I could help along the way. If you're interested in what I'm doing I'd be happy to send you some absolutely free information. You'll need to follow my page and then comment ready so I ca
Linda Torres

Linda Torres

0 likes

How absolutely lucky am I to be this girl’s mom🤍
Some days feel exhausting… the endless rocking, late-night feeds, diaper changes, and never-ending laundry. But then I remind myself — these are the days I’ll miss. One day, I won’t be needed in the same way. One day, the house will be quiet, the baby clothes will be packed away, and my arms won’t
Sky | Home | Lifestyle 🎀🫶🏻

Sky | Home | Lifestyle 🎀🫶🏻

7 likes

Feeling absolutely defeated 😞
Michelle66637 I am Shelly

Michelle66637 I am Shelly

6 likes

Kanye West, wearing sunglasses and a light coat, stands before a dark, angular vehicle. An overlaid tweet from 'ye @kanyewest' offers advice to follow one's vision and act on love, showing 204K likes.
#kanyewest Are you doing it for the love? #kanye
#kanyewest Are you doing it for the love? #kanye
VSGENT

VSGENT

4 likes

This is your sign to start doing daily nature walks!!
I cannot make myself go to a gym to exercise but i CAN talk on the phone and stop to look at flowers. It doesn’t feel like a task that way! I started small trying to consistently take one short walk every day. I’ve been up to two the last week! Praying that the spring weather lasts a while
Maia Pimperl

Maia Pimperl

3 likes

SAHM ≠ Doing absolutely EVERYTHING!
Being a SAHM doesn’t mean I should take on every single responsibility besides working. Yes, staying home with my daughter is a full-time job, but it’s not an excuse for one person to carry the entire household on their back. My boyfriend does the dishes, takes out the trash, watches our daug
Myra 💞

Myra 💞

46 likes

Four books are stacked on a rumpled white blanket, with text overlay "OCTOBER TBH Books to read This month" and a Lemon8 watermark.
A hand holds the book "ORGAN MEATS" by K-MING HANG, featuring a pink cover with a dark animal silhouette, labeled "1ST Book."
A hand holds the book "A LITTLE LIFE" by HANYA YANAGIHARA, featuring a black and white cover with a man's face, labeled "2ND Book."
Everyone Else is Doing it Soooo…
Guess I’ll join the party two days late, my October Reading List!! Yeee! I also added in my September calendar, but just wanna throw out there I didn’t download Bookmory til like a week after the month started. That’s why it’s blank. Don’t come at me, or do. Either way let’s get coffee afterwards.
quinnireadssome

quinnireadssome

10 likes

See more