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3 ways to know he's just "passing time" on you

1. "His future...There's no "we" in it.

Notice that a good person, when he talks about his life goals, things he wants to do, or plans for the next day, it seems to be about him alone, without a small space for him to live in. Love that goes on, he will not let him stand and watch him go forward aimlessly.

2. He never "plans together."

Even the easy things in everyday life, the right relationship should not require you to guess, to be on the one side about whether this week will meet, what will this holiday do if everything in his life seems sudden, no day lock, no preparation to meet...That means he doesn't value his time at all.

3. He will stay...Only "when he's convenient."

This hurts, but to accept the truth, dear, he only comes to see him when he is lonely, when he is free, or when he needs him, but on the day when he is tired, needs an audience, or has a problem, he is silent...I want you to turn around and hug yourself and remember that you are not responsible for anyone's "loneliness shelter."

I want to say, don't exchange your precious time with someone who sees you as just a way through. A good person, step back in a safe spot and keep good love for someone who is really ready to shake hands and walk with you. I'm always encouraged. "🤍

# Love # Love yourself # Good ideas # Relationship # Relationship trick

5/25 Edited to

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