to be loved is to be known

I haven’t read an Ali Hazelwood book in a minute. I have been in a reading slump for a while, but this was exactly the book I needed to get me back on my reading kick.

If you are looking for a book where there is fake dating, enemies to lovers, or funny banter this is definitely for you! It is also a STEM romance which is fun! This book is very witty and a great easy read. When I tell you this book had me giggling and kicking my feet I love every second of it! Elsie and Jack are the blueprint💕

⭐️Rate⭐️: 4.5/5

#alihazelwood #lovetheoretically #booktok #romancebooks #tobeknownistobeloved #tobeknownandloved #bookstagram #bookrecommendations #bookrecs #romancenovel

2024/7/4 Edited to

... Read moreOkay, so I just finished 'Love, Theoretically' by Ali Hazelwood, and I seriously can't stop thinking about it! After being in a bit of a reading slump, this book was a breath of fresh air and exactly what I needed to get back into my romance novel groove. If you're wondering what all the hype is about, let me break it down a bit more for you without giving away any major spoilers! First off, the premise itself is gold. We follow Elsie Hannaway, a theoretical physicist who moonlights as a fake girlfriend for hire to make ends meet. Her life gets hilariously complicated when she crosses paths with Dr. Jack Smith, a hotshot experimental physicist and, frustratingly, the brother of one of her 'clients.' To make things worse, he's also the head of the MIT department she's hoping to join. Cue the academic rivalry, the intense glares, and of course, the undeniable chemistry that bubbles beneath the surface. It’s got that perfect blend of academic setting with a classic enemies-to-lovers, fake dating dynamic that Ali Hazelwood does so well. What really made this book shine for me was how well the characters were developed. Elsie is so relatable – juggling multiple jobs, trying to please everyone, and feeling a bit invisible. Jack, on the other hand, seems intimidating at first, but you quickly realize there's so much more to him. Their banter is top-notch; I found myself genuinely laughing out loud at their exchanges. It’s not just fluffy romance; it actually delves into Elsie’s struggles with imposter syndrome and finding her voice, which I found incredibly empowering. And that brings me to the core theme that resonated so deeply: 'to be loved is to be known.' This phrase, which I saw highlighted with the book, truly defines Elsie and Jack's journey. Throughout the story, they slowly peel back each other's layers, seeing past the surface-level personas. For Elsie, who works so hard to be what everyone else needs, Jack is the one who truly sees her, flaws and all, and loves her for it. It's a beautiful exploration of vulnerability and genuine connection, showing how true love isn't just about grand gestures but about understanding and accepting someone for who they truly are. This aspect really elevates it beyond just a fun romance. If you're looking for where to dive into this gem, it's widely available on e-readers, in physical copies, and often through library apps. It's such an engaging read that you'll probably fly through it. Whether you're a fan of STEM romance, witty dialogue, or just a heartwarming story about finding someone who truly knows you, 'Love, Theoretically' is definitely one to add to your reading list. It absolutely pulled me out of my reading slump and left me with that warm, fuzzy feeling. Don't miss out on Elsie and Jack's incredible story!

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