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🫶🏻What kind of person would anyone want to be with?

✅ 3 qualities of "good people" that anyone needs.

1. Benign. 🚫🔥

• Worldly: Not involved in jokes such as 🍺 liquor 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨, 🎲 gambling, 🚬 addictions.

→ Because it leads to evil and destruction.

• The moral: Keep the canon, especially, not lie 🗣️✋, because lying destroys credibility and misleads the self.

2. Not stupid in the world. 🧠💡

• Must be able to support yourself and be responsible.

• Righteous: Discern what is good-evil, merit-sin, wrong-right. ⚖️

→ Wrong people are not necessarily evil, but wicked people are definitely wrong.

3. Not merciful. 💞🌱

• Knowing to help each other, especially neighbors and colleagues

• Strictly: Gratitude to parents, 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦, philanthropy, alms and help public works

• Like a tree 🍃, if it is fruitless, it may be cut down, as may the unkind.

✨ summary:

"Good people" must not be toxic, not stupid, and not disrespectful.

Worldly 🌍 and just, 🕊️ to be loved and wanted by all.

📖 Source of Information: A Book of Administrative Principles Based on Buddhist Methods

# The right person # Trending # lemon 8 diary # Live a happy life

2025/8/20 Edited to

... Read moreในยุคสมัยที่ผู้คนนิยมเชื่อมต่อและสร้างสัมพันธ์กันมากขึ้น แนวคิดเรื่อง "คนดี" ยิ่งมีความสำคัญ เพราะคนดีนั้นไม่ได้หมายถึงแค่การมีคุณธรรมทางจริยธรรมเท่านั้น แต่ยังรวมถึงคุณสมบัติที่ช่วยให้สามารถใช้ชีวิตในสังคมร่วมกับผู้อื่นอย่างมีความสุขและยั่งยืน จากบทความนี้ "3 คุณสมบัติของคนดีที่ใครๆ ก็อยากอยู่ด้วย" ได้ชี้ให้เห็นถึงความสำคัญของการไม่เป็นพิษเป็นภัย ทั้งในทางโลกและทางธรรม เช่น การหลีกเลี่ยงอบายมุขที่นำไปสู่ความเสียหายทั้งต่อตัวเองและผู้อื่น นอกจากนี้คนดีต้องไม่โง่ในทางโลก หมายถึงการมีสติปัญญาที่ทำให้สามารถดูแลตนเองและรับผิดชอบหน้าที่ต่างๆ รวมถึงการแยกแยะสิ่งที่ดีและไม่ดีได้อย่างถูกต้อง อีกหนึ่งคุณสมบัติที่บทความเน้นคือ "ไม่แล้งน้ำใจ" หรือความเอื้อเฟื้อเผื่อแผ่ที่เป็นรากฐานสำคัญของความเป็นมนุษย์ที่มีคุณธรรมสูงสุด การช่วยเหลือเกื้อกูลเพื่อนบ้าน เพื่อนร่วมงาน และประพฤติในทางที่กตัญญูต่อพ่อแม่ รวมถึงการทำบุญทำทาน จะทำให้คนผู้นั้นเป็นที่รักและเคารพในสังคม นอกจากนั้น การมีคุณสมบัติครบทั้งทางโลกและทางธรรมจะช่วยเสริมสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีในครอบครัว สังคม และที่ทำงาน อีกทั้งช่วยป้องกันปัญหาความขัดแย้งและความเข้าใจผิดที่อาจเกิดขึ้นได้ การประพฤติตนตามหลักธรรมและหลักปฏิบัติที่ดีนี้ จึงเป็นเสมือนเครื่องมือในการบริหารชีวิตที่มีประสิทธิภาพและช่วยให้เกิดความสงบสุขในจิตใจ การที่ "คนดี" ไม่เป็นพิษ ไม่โง่ และไม่แล้งน้ำใจนี้ ยังสามารถนำไปประยุกต์ใช้ในมิติที่กว้างขึ้น เช่น การสร้างวัฒนธรรมองค์กรที่โปร่งใสและยุติธรรม การส่งเสริมคุณธรรมในโรงเรียน และการมีส่วนร่วมในกิจกรรมเพื่อสังคม เพื่อก่อให้เกิดประโยชน์ที่ยั่งยืนต่อชุมชนและประเทศชาติ ด้วยเหตุนี้ การเข้าใจและปฏิบัติตามคุณสมบัติเหล่านี้จึงมีความจำเป็นและเป็นประโยชน์อย่างมากต่อบุคคลทุกเพศทุกวัย ที่ต้องการประสบความสำเร็จในความสัมพันธ์ส่วนตัวและสังคมโดยรวม

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