HOW WE SAVED $ ON OUR WEDDING

quick recap of my wedding👇🏼

🤍 destination wedding in april 2024

🤍 engaged in december 2020

🤍 my fiancé and i are paying for the wedding ourselves in full (we didn’t take out loans or accrue any debt to pay for the wedding)

🤍 we are having ~60ish guests

i’ll share another post on the things we decided to splurge on but here are the specific ways we saved money👇🏼

✨ chose a naturally beautiful venue to spend less on florals & decor

✨ chose an inclusive venue so i wouldn’t need to hire a separate vendor or rent another space for the ceremony, tables, chairs, linens, food, bar, etc. there’s more confusion and higher price tags when there are more vendors!

✨ having a friend officiate

✨ not having a big tiered cake! we are having a small plain white tiered cake with florals from our florist for pics and serving ~20 people but ordered a sheet cake for the other 40 servings we need. 40 servings from a sheet cake cost 3x less than 40 servings in a tiered cake

✨ no bridesmaids & groomsmen, just maid of honor & best man

✨ no wedding planner! just a month of coordinator

#lemon8partner #weddingplanning #weddingideas #moneysavingtips #weddingbudget #saveorsplurge #2024bride #destinationwedding #weddingadvice #weddingtips

2023/11/21 Edited to

... Read morePlanning a wedding can be an overwhelming experience, especially with expenses often spiraling out of control. To avoid debt and stay on budget, we made strategic decisions to save money while still creating a memorable event. First, selecting a venue with natural beauty eliminated the need for extravagant florals and decor, significantly keeping costs down. We chose a rooftop venue with stunning ocean views that perfectly complemented our wedding aesthetic. In addition, having an all-inclusive venue streamlined our costs and reduced the confusion that comes with hiring multiple vendors, as everything from catering to the linens was covered under one package. Another significant saving was having a friend officiate the ceremony. This not only cut out hundreds of dollars in officiant fees, but it also made our ceremony more personal and meaningful. We then opted for a small tiered cake adorned with fresh florals for a beautiful appearance, while a large sheet cake provided the additional servings at a fraction of the cost of a full-tiered cake. By choosing to limit the bridal party to just a maid of honor and best man, we avoided extra expenses that come with outfitting bridesmaids and groomsmen, which can quickly add up. Finally, hiring only a month-of coordinator instead of a full-service wedding planner facilitated cheaper management of the wedding logistics and planning process. With these tips, we were able to create a beautiful wedding experience while sticking to our budget!

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cecilia wagner

What venue is this?

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Latece Buford

Thank you so much for these tips! Do you mind me asking who you used for your month of coordinator?

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