The Honest Review - My Girlhood.
Hey y’all 🤍
Here’s the big question we all tip toe around, Am I the bad friend??? We all have at least one gal we have battled ourselves over, was I the bad friend? 😍
Have you experienced a friendship you out aside your morals or values for in order to remain friends? Always having to say less and listen more because no advice is better then unwanted advice.. 🫦
Is this really a real friend or someone you enjoy being around?
Friendship; love, peace, and war. It doesn’t matter if it’s a friendship or relationships there are so many fine-lines we dance around when we want to be friends with someone.
You either fight yourself from losing your sanity because you feel like this friend is so unhinged and you have to support them anyway or you’ll lose your friendship or you tell them your honest opinion and lose the confidence of that friend and still lose the friendship. 🤍
But why is friendship a battle, putting up with things you really don’t respect because you value the extent of the friendship or share common interests but is that worth fighting yourself respect to have a friendship with someone who you don’t agree with you on similar personal choices or values? 😘
My girlhood is that I have to respect myself before I respect someone else. If I cannot leave my honest opinion around you, and i always have to agree with you and then I can never be my honest self around you so what I say will often offend you. 🥰
Am I a bad friend for this or am I just real because I want to speak my honest opinion. we can still be friends and disagree on things There’s some fine line between it. ✨
What are some values or morals that you find in friendship or that you think you need in friendships in order to remain a honest and healthy relationship? ❤️🔥
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