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That person might want to leave

Is there anyone who gets tired just by being together?

After talking to someone who's not a bad person,

For some reason, I feel moya....

Maybe everyone feels differently.

But inside,

"Relationships that wear themselves down without realizing it"

I think there is also.

Relationships actually have a huge impact on the way we work.

✔ too careful and tired

✔'t tell the truth.

✔ put off my time and what I want to challenge

In the past, I used to think that "matching is an adult."

But by reviewing the sense of distance,

My time and mind have increased,

I've become able to focus on what I want to do.

Rather than forcibly dating,

I think that choosing to take care of yourself is also a great way to live.

What I want to tell people who are worried about human relationships and work styles

Since I also posted in other posts

I would be happy if you could take a peek if you are interested 🍀

Human relationships Relationship troubles Prepare your mind # communication

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私もかつては、嫌な人とでも無理に合わせてしまうことが多く、自分の時間や気持ちがどんどんと消耗してしまうことがありました。でも、ある時「そういう人とは適度な距離を置く」という考え方にシフトしてから、自分の心にかなり余裕ができました。例えば、マニピュレーターのように他人をコントロールしようとして罪悪感を植え付ける人や、責任転嫁をして自分の非を認めない人は特に距離を取ることが大切です。こうした人たちと無理に関わると、自分が疲弊してしまい、本来の自分らしさを失いかねません。私の場合は、そういった人たちからはっきりとNOを伝えたり、必要以上に深入りしないことでストレスが減りました。また、信頼できる友人や相談相手を持つこともとても効果的です。一人で抱え込むのではなく、話すことで心の負担が軽くなり、気持ちの整理がつきやすくなります。何よりも大切なのは「自分を大切にする選択」を勇気を持ってすること。周囲に合わせることが大人だと思い込んでいた私でしたが、自分の時間や感情を優先することで、むしろ人間関係全体が健全になったと感じています。心が疲れる人と無理に付き合うことはなく、自分自身が健やかでいることが何より大切だと実感しました。

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