As you age to understand how close you are, living together for a long time can be a problem.

As they get older, they have more free time, often inviting old colleagues, old neighbors, or school friends to go on nature trips and live comfortably together for days.

✨ but when they actually got together, they found out... less than three days ago, they started to feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable.

Experienced people understand that day trips or days are no problem, but if they stay together too long, no matter how good the relationship is, there is an easy chance of trouble or conflict.

🥀 1. People. The scariest thing is to be next to each other every day.

Normally just sitting down for tea and talking, everyone feels like they get along.

But when they actually ate together, problems began to follow.

You want to wake up early to see the sunrise, but he naturally wants to sleep until he wakes up.

You like soft food, but he can't afford a meal.

You spend it carefully, but he spends the money emotionally.

In a few hours, these things may not be a problem.

But if you stay together for seven or eight days, see each other every day, everyone will feel tired.

Not because of who is a bad person, but because each person has only different habits and lifestyles themselves.

✨✨ When a person is at this age, the decades-old lifestyle almost becomes a permanent habit. ✨✨

It is difficult for anyone to change themselves.

If it's a short period of time, still patient or adaptable to each other.

But as time went on, the patience that had gradually turned into fatigue and a sense of wasting energy.

So the problem is not that relationships are bad, but that they live together for a long time, making small differences more and more obvious.

2. No matter how good the relationship is, there must still be a certain distance.

Many people think that "they are close, there is no separation between them."

But the truth is the opposite.

The older the friend, the more you need to know, keep boundaries and fit.

What you think is sociability can become a line in the other person's eyes.

Tourism is the easiest time of these problems.

Who will decide the itinerary?

How will the costs be divided?

Are you going to divide each other in half?

What level of hotel stay?

If you don't dare to talk clearly in the first place, when you go home, you tend to have an affair.

There is one interesting statement:

"The fit distance makes the relationship gorgeous."

At a young age, we may feel that being together every day is fun.

But as you get older, you understand

The fact that each person lives comfortably in his or her own way makes the relationship last.

3. After retirement / age, the most valuable thing is comfort.

After retirement or getting older, it's important not that anyone travels farther.

But who is living a smoother and happier life?

Going out is for happiness, not for friendship.

Instead of fighting together for 7-8 days,

Let's fight together for two days and go home with a smile.

If you get along well, you can still make your next appointment.

If they don't get along, they don't lose their relationship.

Real maturity is knowing each other.

4. If you need to travel together, remember these three things.

First: Don't travel too long.

No more than three days is the most comfortable time.

Second: Money matters need to be discussed clearly in advance.

Don't be afraid of being uncomfortable, because the clearer you speak, the more comfortable you are.

Number three: Accept that each person has their own style.

People who want to get up early, get up early.

People who want to rest rest rest.

No force, no pressure.

Friendship will therefore last a long time.

Summary

As they age, the most valuable thing is not having a lot of friends.

But is to have friends who are already tired

Sitting down and talking, drinking tea, meeting occasionally or hanging out sometimes is great.

Don't bind the relationship too tightly.

Everyone lives well and then meets back from time to time.

That kind of makes the friendship last longer. ❤️

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