Being a mama ๐
Hello everyone๐ , my name is Mia , Iโm 24 years old with a one year old boy ๐ฉต. My son will be 2 in a couple of months ๐ฅบ๐ซถ๐ฝ. Just wanna say youโre never really gonna be ready to be a mama, sometimes it just happens unexpectedly, but it is the absolute best and most amazing experienceโค๏ธ, Iโve always wanted a boy first and god has answered my prayers. I am sooo blessed to even be able to be a mama๐ฉท. I thought for awhile I couldnโt have any kids after trying with my man, once we stopped thinking too much about it, it happened ๐ฅฐ. Sad to say they all grow up and become their own person in this big crazy world๐ฅบ. Heโs getting so big and his growth is amazing ๐ฉต! I just love watching him learn new things and saying new words! I am definitely not ready for the potty training phase ๐ but Iโll be proud of myself for getting through it ๐๐ฝ. Postpartum anxiety hit me worse than depression, Iโve had it ever since my son turned 1.. I canโt do much and I still push myself to go outside til this day, itโs been the worst experience of my life and Iโm scared to even have my second child (which I would love a girl next).. but one day itโll get better๐ taking everything day by day and hope I can get my self care life back, because Iโve been slacking and also the picture of me is when I was a good 2 months pp ๐ฅฐ! I miss the old me sooo muchhhh!! But learning to love the new me, I really just need my self care backโค๏ธ. My son will always have my heart, he is my best friend and ofc my twin๐๐ซถ๐ฝ๐ซถ๐ฝ this wasnโt supposed to be so long but I think Iโll definitely be venting a lot on here, and maybe make this my safe space to say how I feel and how life is going๐, Iโm really not a social media person anymore but Iโll be popping up here and there when I canโค๏ธ if anybody do see this, thank you for listening to my mama talk ๐ฅฒ!
Motherhood is a transformative journey that comes with both joy and challenges. For many first-time mothers, like Mia, the experience brings unexpected surprises and emotional hurdles. As a new mom, the pressure to feel fully prepared can weigh heavily. Itโs essential to acknowledge that no one is ever completely ready for this life shift; feeling a mix of excitement and anxiety is common. The transition to motherhood often involves navigating postpartum emotions. While postpartum depression is on the minds of many, postpartum anxiety can also be a significant struggle that affects daily life. Awareness and communication about these feelings can help. Finding support systemsโwhether itโs friends, family, or online communitiesโcan provide the reassurance and connection that many new moms crave. Additionally, creating a personal care routine and finding moments for self-love are crucial for mental well-being. Remember, itโs okay to take things day by day. Embracing the chaos, cherishing the little victories, and learning to love your new self can important steps in this journey. Moreover, as children grow rapidly, they bring unique developmental milestones that can be a source of pride and joy for a mom. From first words to bladder training, every experience is a memory in the making. So for all the new mamas out thereโyour feelings are valid, your challenges are shared, and your journey is unique and beautiful! ๐
Hey saw that in one of your comments your son wonโt eat anything I have a brother who wonโt eat anything but used to eat everything! Itโs called Arfid( mightโve not have spelt it right) but itโs Avoidant/restrictive food intact! Please look it up!