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For whom is a good wife and wise mother?

Do you still believe in the word "good wife and wise mother"?

"Being a good wife and a good mother" is a fantasy that society has decided on its own.

Do your best for your husband, your children, and put yourself off.

As a result, I lost my smile and became lethargic.

There are a lot of moms who think, "What am I living for?."

Let's stop now.

A good wife and wise mother is a curse to silence a woman.

Mom is neither "wife" nor "mother,"

Live your life as a "woman."

To regain your happiness,

In the end, it becomes the best love for the child.

Good wife and wise mother, let's graduate.

From now on, I will be a "smart woman who lives her own life."

I am not a housekeeper. The Curse of a Good Wife and a Sensible Mother Mom's Life Mom is independent. Women's happiness

2025/8/20 Edited to

... Read more「賢いママ」という言葉を聞くと、見た目の印象も気になるかもしれませんが、本当の賢さは内面から輝くことにあると実感しています。私自身、以前は「良妻賢母」の枠にとらわれて外見や役割にばかり意識が向いてしまい、自分のことを見失っていました。 でも、最近では『自分の人生を生きる賢い女性』になることを意識し始め、外見よりも自分の心の充実や健康を大切にしています。おしゃれも自分を表現する一つの手段として楽しめるようになりました。 具体的には、家事や育児に追われる中でも、自分の時間を作り趣味やリラックスの時間を確保。心に余裕ができると、自然と笑顔も増え、家族とのコミュニケーションも良好になりました。 また、『良妻賢母』という言葉の奥にある「妻や母としての役割を全うすることが女性の幸せ」という社会的な期待から自由になったことで、自分の夢や目標にも向き合うことができています。 周囲の目を気にせず、自分らしく生きること。それが、結果的に「賢いママ」の本当の姿だと思いますし、見た目の輝きも自然に伴ってくると感じています。

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