Sometimes... what we call "love" can be just loneliness finding someone to fulfill.

Sometimes...

What we call "love."

Maybe it's just loneliness.

Who are finding people to fill

Have you ever noticed...

We just got to know someone shortly.

But miss him all day

Waiting for a message from him.

Smiled when he saw his name bounce up.

And start imagining the future.

That has never actually happened yet.

In fact...

We may not even know that yet.

When he's angry,

What kind of man is he?

When he's stressed

How does he take care of his own heart?

When he's in trouble,

Is he responsible for his own life?

Or even...

When we're the weakest

Will he still be there next to us?

But the human brain

Don't like free

Don't like uncertainty.

So it quickly added a story.

From one sentence of text.

Become hope.

From calling each other.

Become the future in the head.

From a small interest.

Become the word

"He could be the right man."

The fact that many people don't want to accept is

We didn't fall in love with that person.

We fell in love.

"Feeling."

That happened while with him.

We fell in love.

Getting attention.

We fell in love.

Feeling that you are important

We fell in love.

Hope there's someone

Let's fulfill what we lack.

And call it in.

"Love"

But true love

Not looking at anyone through the glasses of hope.

True love

Is to see the whole truth.

Both the bright side and the dark side.

Both what we like

And what we don't like.

And then decided

Do we still want to travel together?

Every tree takes time to grow.

So is love.

No one looked at the seeds on the first day.

And immediately realized

For the next ten years,

It will produce sweet or sour fruit.

Our duty

It's not about speeding it up.

But is watching.

Learn

And give time, the truth has revealed itself.

Because in the end...

True love is not the person who makes the heart beat the hardest.

But the one after us actually knew him.

Know the advantages

Know both disadvantages

Know the whole wound.

Know the shadows

And then our hearts still say,

"I chose her."

And more importantly...

Before we find true love from someone,

We might have to ask ourselves,

Today...

We are looking for someone to love us.

Or learning to love yourself.

People who can't fill themselves.

Often use relationships as a cure for loneliness.

But people who are already full from the inside

Won't use love to escape the void

He will use love

To share the abundance already in the heart.

And that's...

Is the beginning of love without chasing.

Don't squeeze.

Do not possess

Because when two people don't approach each other because of "lack,"

But approach each other because it's "full."

That relationship.

Won't be a life to leave with anyone

But it is a similar walk

As two people who choose each other, understand each other, side by side.

Every day, consciously and freely,

😍

With love from the heart

Wicker teacher

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