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I won't say it, but anxious office worker girl

Office worker girl in her 50s

It looks strong, but

Really

I have a lot of anxiety

But

Anxiety is

Evidence of thinking about the future.

So

Not a bad one.

Anxiety

a reason to stop.

Make it a trigger to move

The future is

Change from there

Do you love your life?

Fight!

# 50 s home work

3/17 Edited to

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