A painful moment you wouldn't wish upon anyone

There's a lot of painful memories I wouldn't wish upon anyone, not even my worst enemy. I'll only talk of my recent addition to that list, which was yesterday after my surgery. 🐥

When the nurse took that (I forgot it's name) out of my bladder so I could try to pee. The pain of the bleeding and pee stung so bad! It was so annoying trying to release the sea and involuntarily pausing because of the pain of the bleeding. I was told it would only last a day, I very much hope that stays the case and I don't become some 1 in whatever chances. That sting brought tears to my eyes but I did my best to grit my teeth. 🥲

Tell me about a painful moment that you experienced that you wouldn't wish upon anyone!

#surgeryupdate #painful #memory #letschat #lemon8contests

2025/2/19 Edited to

... Read moreExperiencing pain after surgery is a common struggle many face. It's important to understand that post-surgical pain can vary greatly among individuals. Some might experience discomfort due to minor procedures, while others may have severe pain from major surgeries. Pain management is crucial and often involves a combination of medications and techniques like physical therapy. If you're recovering from surgery, it's advisable to communicate openly with your healthcare team about your pain levels. This allows them to assist you better, ensuring you have a more comfortable recovery. Beyond the physical aspect, the emotional toll of surgery should not be overlooked. Many experience anxiety or emotional distress related to their condition or recovery. This is where community support becomes invaluable. Sharing experiences, whether in-person or online, can help alleviate feelings of isolation and provide comfort. Engaging in discussions about pain and healing allows individuals to connect and learn from one another, fostering a sense of belonging. Have you ever faced a moment of pain you wouldn't wish on others? Sharing your story may help someone else going through a tough time. Let's create a supportive space where we can uplift each other through our experiences.

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I had a rare tumor (trichofolliculoma) that got infected with an even more rare bacterial infection (actinomycosis) that swelled so big it ruptured…ended up being on IV antibiotics for 6 months and needed surgery to have it removed 🙃 was under my armpit btw…so for weeks I was walking around like a gotdamn linebacker cus I couldn’t put the weight of my arm on it (also couldn’t wear a bra…had to wrap my chest with an ace bandage…and I’m a DD so that was….about as fun as you can imagine)

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I guess I’ve been lucky - my worst was labor. I do know from other people that knee replacement is a biotch!

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