Do it for yourself 1st

When I first encountered the idea of "doing it for yourself first," it truly transformed the way I approach creativity and life. Jonathan Anderson’s advice to "build your house" before inviting others in resonated deeply with me. This metaphor highlights the importance of establishing a strong personal foundation and a clear vision of what you want to express or achieve before trying to meet external expectations. Similarly, Beck’s encouragement to "create your own world" inspired me to embrace individuality in everything I do. Whether it’s painting, writing, or even daily decisions, putting myself first doesn’t mean being selfish—it means honoring my unique perspective and values without compromise. In my experience, the phrase "I paint for me," which I often remind myself, serves as a powerful reminder to maintain artistic integrity and personal fulfillment. It’s so easy to get swayed by trends or other people’s opinions, but true fulfillment comes from expressing your authentic self. For anyone struggling to find their voice or feeling pressured to conform, I recommend starting with what feels non-negotiable to you. Build your core "house"—your beliefs, passions, and personal goals—and allow that to guide your interactions and creative output. This approach has not only improved my confidence but deepened the quality of my work and relationships. Ultimately, the messages from these creators teach us that when you honor yourself first, you create a space where authenticity thrives, and others are drawn to the genuine energy you put out. It’s a journey worth taking for anyone who wants to live and create with purpose and joy.