I need some advice…
I’ve been thinking about if I should continue going to this college that I’m at now or transfer or even go back my ‘original’ one.
I’m just tired of being at home with no friends/social life,no money,limited transport etc.
I tried to make friends but it clear that everyone already has their friend groups or don’t really want to be friends…
So,i tried going back on bumble again,just to have a similar result and not knowing how to continue a conversation or develop a friendship since I don’t know how to drive,I wanna learn but idk what’s the best way to learn.
The school I’m currently at doesn’t have a lot of opportunities to study abroad(which is what I really want to do)
It’s very limited things that I could do at this school…so I feel like that I wouldn’t be able to ‘grow up’ like people keep telling me or being able to relate to people my age
I’m just exhausted and would like some advice to ease my mind especially as the school year is coming to an end.
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College is a transformative period, but it can be challenging, especially when faced with feelings of isolation. If you're considering a transfer, it's essential to weigh the benefits and challenges involved. Many students grapple with similar decisions, contemplating if their current environment truly supports their academic and social growth. Here are some factors to consider: Assess the academic programs and extracurricular activities at your current institution compared to those at your previous school or potential new colleges. If studying abroad is a priority for you, research the opportunities available at each institution. Networking is crucial; make use of platforms like clubs, social media, or community events to find connections with similar interests. Being proactive in seeking friendships can alleviate feelings of loneliness. Additionally, consider practical skills such as learning to drive; many resources and driving schools can help you gain independence. Lastly, remember that it's okay to seek help. College counseling services can provide tools and insights for making these important life decisions. You're not alone in this journey, and reaching out for advice can guide you towards a fulfilling academic and social experience.
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