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What's out of control is "let the fuck go."

1. What do other people think? Can't control, let go.

- We can talk well.

- Can do well, but we can't really handle the thoughts in anyone's head.

2. The answer that he does not give, do not force

- If he's quiet, it's quiet.

- Sometimes the obvious is that he doesn't choose to explain anything.

3. The past cannot be solved. Do not punish yourself again.

- Think about it, but don't hit yourself every night, because it's over, it's really unchangeable.

4. Other people's emotions are not our job all the time.

- He's frustrated.

- He's cold.

- He's not ready to talk. Maybe that's his story.

It's not always our fault.

5. It will rain. The car will get stuck. People will change their minds. Life has many things.

That never asked us for permission before birth. The more forced, the more tired.

Accepted, the heart will be lighter

6. If you can't control the results, come back and see what we can do.

- Work hard.

- Clearly, rest enough. That's enough.

Don't have to carry everything in the world

7. Releasing doesn't mean losing. It just means...

We stop wasting on things that will never listen to us and instead treat ourselves.

8. Some relationships are heavy because we try to control the other person too hard.

- I want him to love.

- I want him to be clear.

- Want him to be what we hope.

Finally, we are tired alone.

9. The more you catch, the more you drop, sometimes you have to drop.

- The more stressed, the more disappointed they want.

Something gets better when we really stop squeezing it.

10. What's out of control? Let the fuck go.

- Not because we don't care, but because our hearts shouldn't break.

Because things were never in our power in the first place.

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