Emotional 💔❤️‍🩹

I don't know I just feel wanna cry out loud.. but at the same time I am posting here to express my thoughts that's all... A daughter in my life is the only person I rely on to for now. She hug me just now and says, " I just want to hug you ibu".. Then.... I hold my tears try not to cry Infront of her. I raised my children well but shits happens. Then we are going through this phase. For me to forgive the person that makes me to a different person, I hope 1 day u will be in my shoes.

#myjourneyasamum #emotions #feelings

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... Read moreGoing through emotional pain can feel isolating, but sharing your feelings can be a valuable step toward healing. Like many parents, I have faced moments where life’s hardships challenged my sense of self and strength. What helped me the most was acknowledging that it's okay to feel vulnerable and to lean on loved ones for support, just as the author finds solace in her daughter’s hug. Forgiveness, especially when someone’s actions have deeply affected you, is often a complex and gradual process. It doesn't mean forgetting or excusing what happened, but rather freeing yourself from the burden of ongoing anger. I found that reflecting on my own emotions honestly and giving myself permission to grieve was essential before I could truly forgive. Parenting through emotional turmoil adds another layer of difficulty. Watching your children while managing your own feelings can be draining. However, children can also be a source of unexpected comfort and motivation, reminding us of the love and bonds that still hold us together. If you’re in a similar situation, consider reaching out to trusted friends, joining support groups, or talking to a counselor. Writing down your thoughts, much like the author is doing, can also help organize your feelings and track your progress. Remember, emotional healing isn’t linear. Some days will be harder than others, but with patience and self-compassion, moving forward is possible. Holding onto hope that one day those who have hurt you can understand your perspective may be a part of your personal journey toward peace.

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