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Which house is starting to change? Let's share it.🍋

Our son is 10 years old.

Start addicted to friends, addicted to games, talking to friends rather than talking to mom

Frankly admitted to being secretly heartbroken.

Before calling

Now I have to wait. "One more eye."

We don't view children as spoiled.

But confused that...

This is early adolescence, right?

Or we are not dealing correctly

Some days are irritated.

Some days try to understand

Some days it's just tired. 😅

Therefore wanting to invite the mother whose child began to grow up too

Let's share that

• How did the children start to change?

• What problems do you encounter at this age?

• How to talk or how to set rules that actually work?

Mom, what house has passed?

Or are also meeting

Let's tell. Let's share. Let's be friends. 🤍

# Raising a teenager # Teen children # lemon 8 diary

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