why telling people to just choose a better partner, or to just get over it, is absolutely useless. #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment

worst advice on planet earth #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment

importance of boundaries in a FA situationship #fearfulavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment

friendzone #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant

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ownership is what opens the door to possibility, otherwise you’re dancing around the issue #fearfulavoidantattachment

have you ever been made out to be the villain? #fearfulavoidant

the fearful avoidant loop 🔄 #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant

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what happens when you manage in order to avoid an outcome you don’t want or get an outcome you do want #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle

contortion does not ever equate to a healthy dynamic. it may give you a certain level of connection. but the anxiety you feel as a byproduct is the proof that you are not being met, it is not proof that something is wrong with you #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment

a msg to all fa’s #fearfulavoidant

“we heal in relationships” is sometimes taken too literally. the act of building up enough self trust to leave a relationship is sometimes what’s needed, not doubling down and staying because we need to heal together. #fearfulavoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle

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what i thought i needed to heal was not even it. as i walked through the fire, i realized that the only thing that needed to grow was my capacity to be in my own presence with all the parts of me that i had put away in cute little boxes. it was never about being good enough or less reactive or a be

cycles form when two people react to one another on a loop 🔄 #fearfulavoidant

trying to regulate a fearful avoidant doesn’t work #fearfulavoidantattachment

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i need this to work < can this be healthy? #fyp #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle

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