Almost canceled the wedding because of this majesty.⁉️
He said that one's life is no different from a play.
Every time there's a story. Let us keep it as a story.
Memories of Life...
If anyone has been following our love story in Ep1, you know where you came from (sorry for letting it wait so long, because honestly, writing something requires a lot of energy + concentration + emotion).
Today is ready. No, wait. Let's move on to EP2!!
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We have been dating a girlfriend since the third year of study. After the end of the year,
In 1992, he came down to find a job in BMA while his girlfriend was not finished school (in year 3). He was still in Phitsanulok. Many people might wonder if when there was a girlfriend there and why not find a job in that province. It makes sense.
The reason why he doesn't work in his hometown is because
▪️ a personal commitment before meeting a girlfriend. How to graduate, we have to go down to work in BMA with the feeling that
The BMA has a job to choose from. Should make better money for us.
▪️ the house, the wood has created a lot of happiness and warmth, because from the age of 8, the mother came to live with the father and the big mother (the mother, who is very good and very merciful), but the brothers and sisters, the big mother's children, are not very kind to us (I am a mistress), so I am determined to graduate when I have to leave that house.
▪️ with a Bangkok background, so one day my girlfriend was in BMA anyway. Not seeing each other every day for two years shouldn't be an obstacle, we think!
That era was an age that didn't have the Internet or technology like today, or maybe we didn't know much. The world was quite narrow because life never went far. Going out into the wider world was exciting and challenging. Job applications only relied on advertisements from the newspaper page, and random walks in to apply. Fill in a juicy job application. Most of them told me to get back in touch.
It didn't take me about two weeks to get a job as a public relations worker, Wang Phetchabun Co., Ltd., of the Tesha Pibulay family, owner of the World Trade Center, Bangkok, before Central Development took over to become today's Central World.
In fact, during that time, the crowd broke up many times, with a mismatch of time, we worked, he studied, but he was so supportive that his girlfriend graduated, and he went up and started living together here without a wedding ceremony??
Living together before dressing up, it allows us to learn a lot of things: quirks, pros and cons, the dark side of each person. Can you get it? These things will make you decide whether to go on or end the relationship!!
But with our habit is to love someone.
Even though he made bad habits with us, we still love and endure, living together in a miserable way, and being happy until one day, like we feel that we will keep dating like this? Don't you take me to know your family?
Very disturbing, my girlfriend started to get to know the family in his family's merit work, to introduce them to all the elders and relatives, and we seemed to be very welcome with ease of approach and approach to our adults. Honestly, our job wasn't bad. It was probably the assistant manager of public relations.
Spending time together and living together without telling our parents (which they may know). A total of about 9 years until one day of accidental pregnancy. But with the age of early adulthood, I thought that I should start seriously building a family, so I took the matter to consult the adult relatives of the boyfriend's uncle (at that time, the boyfriend's father-mother relationship was in a split family, the parents separated). The boyfriend has always been an uncle-ah to help.
The uncle was an adult to talk about marriage with our parents, who we asked not to tell us about our pregnancy, for fear that he would be dissatisfied with the dignity of the former bailiff, and many acquaintances would become dishonored by the old generation.
So it was agreed that after two months, a simple wedding ceremony would be held at our home in Phitsanulok.
Everything is our job to arrange the work on the side that the groom is the issuer of the expenses.
Very chaotic during the job preparation period.
🤍 place to use our house to hold a Thai wedding, which is a monastic ceremony in the morning, a monk's party, a guest's luncheon at the end, no wedding celebrations at all costs.
🤍 to prepare a young groom's dress, and the groom bought it successfully. It was slack pants, shirt, tie, tie, overlaid with a Bresser suit shirt. And the bride. At that time, he preferred to rent and cut. We chose the type. He would measure it according to our size and have it.
Try to fix the size. The rental price cut 10,000 baht. The era was considered expensive. Put it on and return the store. The store went to rent.
* * Remember to go to fix the dress because the proportion began to expand, because when measuring before cutting the dress, the stomach is 2 months, the stomach is not yet released, but when going to try to get the dress, have to fix because very tight, the body proportion began to change, with the stomach began to grow a little
🤍 provide our gift is a small pink ripped book with a heart print 💗 like Post-it, courtesy of the younger owner of the printing shop who used to work with the publication together. Save this part of the budget.
🤍 of the guests, there are about 25-30 Chinese tables, and there are friends in Bangkok / Phitsanulok, my adult guests, relatives, and less than 10 grooms.
One week before the wedding, we took a leave of absence to prepare the event. Contact the monk, borrow the carpet equipment, asana to prepare at home, borrow a table - a chair from the temple to sit for the guests, and we donated the merit money to the temple. All the preparation was neat, but accept tired, hok, running busy all the time without rest 🥲, because everything was done by ourselves.
🖤, and then unexpected events happened. 🫢
Two days before the wedding, I suddenly felt a strange, sore stomach and bleeding from the vagina, so I rushed to the hospital.
It turned out that the child had atrophy, as simple as stopping growth, no breathing, at which time, at about four months of gestational age, the only way was to scrape the uterus.
We couldn't cry, there was confusion, confusion, everything, but the second had to make a decision, because if we didn't hurry to remove it, the danger would be to us, there could be haemorrhage. At first I thought, or to leave the wedding first, and then come to deal with it later, which the doctor did not recommend. It was too risky with a compulsive situation, so I had to scrape the uterus and remove the child. 😭
And before doing anything, we and our girlfriend feel that we should inform the adults on the fan side. Once that way, we know, we are shocked and feel that we should tell our adults as well. In case anything happens to us, it will become a big deal. It seems like losing an adult to know but why not to hide. But we still insist on not telling our home to know because it will escalate.
The fan ranted out of anxiety, even calling the relatives together what to do, was uncomfortable with the incident, and was the subject of a debate about whether or not to cancel or postpone the wedding, as if we were afraid of a drought, of blood loss, or anything that might happen within the event, and would make it a problem, including the point, uh, that the stomach is real or deceived, far away!!
Finally, you have to talk to the doctor about what happened, and scraping the uterus is not a danger. You can go back to your home for a few days, but do not lift or do anything hard.
After it was done, we left the hospital safe, and the wedding thought to be poured out was done.
After a few days of marriage, maybe a week, my girlfriend suddenly had to report to be a professor at a university in the South, and we were working in BMA.
What will marriage look like?
Once married, must be separated.
Life is a soap opera that is about to begin...In EP.3
Please support this woman. 🤍❤️
เรื่องราวชีวิตและความรักมักไม่ได้โรยด้วยกลีบกุหลาบเสมอไป เหมือนละครดราม่าที่ต้องเจอเหตุการณ์ไม่คาดฝันอย่าง "เกือบโดนยกเลิกงานแต่ง" เนื่องจากมีภาวะแทรกซ้อนในช่วงตั้งครรภ์ เรื่องแบบนี้เป็นได้ทั้งบทเรียนและกำลังใจสำหรับคู่รักที่กำลังเผชิญช่วงเวลาท้าทายเหมือนกัน ในสถานการณ์ที่ผู้หญิงตั้งครรภ์มีอาการเจ็บท้องน้อยและมีเลือดออกจากช่องคลอด ซึ่งเป็นสัญญาณเตือนภัยว่าการตั้งครรภ์อาจไม่ปกติ เช่น ทารกในครรภ์มีอาการฝ่อ หยุดเจริญเติบโต หรือไม่มีการเต้นของหัวใจตามที่แพทย์วินิจฉัย การตัดสินใจทำขูดมดลูกจึงเป็นทางเลือกเดียวเพื่อป้องกันอันตรายจากภาวะตกเลือดที่เป็นภัยต่อสุขภาพของแม่ ทั้งนี้ การดูแลและทำความเข้าใจจากคู่รักและครอบครัวก็เป็นสิ่งสำคัญยิ่ง ในบริบทสังคมไทย ยังไม่น้อยที่การตั้งครรภ์และปัญหาสุขภาพเกี่ยวกับครรภ์มักถูกตีความในแง่ลบ เช่น ความเชื่อเรื่อง "ล้มเป็นแล้ง" ที่ทำให้เกิดแรงกดดันและความกังวลใจภายในครอบครัวและญาติพี่น้อง บางครั้งอาจถึงขั้นถกเถียงกันว่าจะเลื่อนหรือตัดสินใจยกเลิกงานแต่งเพื่อหลีกเลี่ยงความเสี่ยงที่อาจเกิดขึ้น อย่างไรก็ตาม ต้องเน้นย้ำว่าการขูดมดลูกเมื่อได้รับการดูแลจากแพทย์มืออาชีพนั้นถือเป็นขั้นตอนที่ปลอดภัยและไม่ส่งผลกระทบรุนแรงหากปฏิบัติตามคำแนะนำหลังทำ เช่น งดยกของหนักและพักผ่อนอย่างเพียงพอ การสื่อสารเปิดเผยอย่างเป็นกันเองระหว่างคู่รักและครอบครัวจึงช่วยลดความเข้าใจผิดและความวิตกกังวลเหล่านี้ได้ สำหรับผู้ที่กำลังเตรียมงานแต่งหรือเผชิญกับสถานการณ์คล้ายคลึงกัน แนะนำให้แสวงหาข้อมูลและคำปรึกษาจากแพทย์ผู้เชี่ยวชาญ รวมถึงหาแนวทางสนับสนุนทางอารมณ์จากคนใกล้ชิด เพราะการมีสุขภาพที่ดีของคู่รักและผู้หญิงตั้งครรภ์คือพื้นฐานสำคัญในการเริ่มต้นชีวิตคู่อย่างมีความสุขและมั่นคง เหตุการณ์ในชีวิตจริงเหล่านี้จึงไม่ใช่แค่เรื่องดราม่าที่เกิดขึ้นแล้วจบไป แต่ยังเป็นบทเรียนที่ลึกซึ้งเกี่ยวกับความรัก อุปสรรค และการผ่านพ้นไปด้วยกัน สุดท้ายแล้ว ความไม่สมบูรณ์แบบในชีวิตคือสิ่งที่ทำให้เรื่องราวเหล่านี้มีคุณค่าและเป็นแรงบันดาลใจแก่ผู้คนอีกมากมาย