Should I told him to bring a dish next potluck?

Yesterday, our office had another potluck in the break room. Everyone brought something: salads, roasted chicken, cheesy pasta, there was such a good spread. I was sitting in the corner about to grab a scoop of salad when I saw that one coworker walk in… empty-handed again, just carrying a big soda bottle.

During lunch, he loaded his plate up so high, chatting and laughing with people. This isn’t a one time thing, he almost always eats the most but brings next to nothing. I kept going back and forth in my head, should I say: “Hey, maybe bring a dish next time?” But I was scared it’d kill the vibe and make lunch super awkward.

By the end, he walked back to his desk with this satisfied smile and I just ate my food wondering about next potluck, do I let it slide again or finally say something?

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2025/10/23 Edited to

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Bubbles 💞🫧

Maybe all he could afford was a soda. He might not have availability to food or money might be an issue for him after paying all of his bills. We never know someone’s situation so keep being graceful girly 🫶🏻

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WhoAmEyeReally

The way he may be facing silent struggles in this current economy is IMMENSE. Potlucks are supposed to be “bring what you can”, not a casserole with a side of judgment. Gross. 👀

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