Losing a loved one, especially a grandmother who holds a special place in your heart, is one of the most profound experiences anyone can face. I’ve found that dates like birthdays can stir emotions more strongly because they represent moments we used to share together. For me, since my birthday is July 23 and hers was July 27, that week has always felt like a shared celebration. Now, without her here, it feels bittersweet and surreal. Many people find comfort in their own beliefs about what happens after death. I believe that my grandma is with God, and even if I can’t see or touch her anymore, I feel her presence spiritually. I understand not everyone shares these views, but holding onto this belief has given me peace in moments of grief. Lighting a candle on days like "Remember your GRANDMA Day" on July 7th has become a meaningful ritual. It keeps her memory alive and honors all grandmas we've lost but never forget. Through this journey of grief, I have learned that it’s okay to feel a mix of sadness and love. Celebrating her birthday, even from a distance, has become a way to keep our connection alive. For anyone who’s feeling the absence of a grandparent as special dates approach, know that your feelings are valid. Sharing memories, lightings candles, or simply talking about them can be healing. Ultimately, remembrance is a deeply personal experience—one that brings comfort in unique ways over time.