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... Read moreสำหรับคนที่เติบโตมาในภาคใต้ อย่างที่รู้กันว่าเรามักจะถูกเข้าใจผิดหรือตีความในแง่ลบจากผู้คนภายนอก ซึ่งบางทีความรู้สึกแบบนี้ทำให้เราระแวงและไม่อยากแสดงตัวตนที่แท้จริงออกไป หลายครั้งที่เราโดน "ถูกของ" หรือถูกมองว่าเป็นคนที่ไม่น่าคบหาด้วย แต่ลึกๆ ทุกคนก็แค่อยากถูกใจ ได้รับการยอมรับและเห็นคุณค่า ในฐานะคนท้องถิ่นที่เติบโตในทุ่งสง นครศรีธรรมราช ผมพบว่าการมีแพชชั่นและมุมมองในแบบของตัวเองนั้นสำคัญมาก การเปิดพื้นที่สำหรับแลกเปลี่ยนความคิดเห็นกับคนอื่นๆ โดยเฉพาะในโซเชียลทำให้เราเข้าใจว่าเราไม่ได้อยู่คนเดียว เรื่องอื่นๆ ที่เกี่ยวข้องกับชีวิตประจำวัน วิถีชีวิต หรือวัฒนธรรม ก็กลายเป็นเรื่องที่น่าสนใจและได้รับการตอบรับดีขึ้น ถ้าจะให้ดี เราควรเปิดใจกว้างและร่วมมือกันสร้างสรรค์ความเป็นใต้ในมุมมองบวกมากขึ้น อย่างเช่นการใช้ #เด็กใต้ หรือ #เด็กทุ่งสง เพื่อสร้างชุมชนออนไลน์ที่อบอุ่น พูดคุยและแบ่งปันประสบการณ์กันแบบจริงใจนี่แหละที่ทำให้เราโดนใจ มากกว่าโดนของ และมันยังช่วยให้ผู้คนข้างนอกได้มองเห็นมุมบวกที่แท้จริงของเราอีกด้วย สุดท้ายนี้ การอยากโดนใจไม่ใช่แค่ความปรารถนาส่วนตัว แต่ยังเป็นเสมือนการสร้างความเชื่อมโยงและความเข้าใจในชุมชน การที่ใครสักคนกดไลก์หรือส่งกำลังใจเล็กๆ น้อยๆ มันมีพลังทำให้เรารู้สึกว่าตัวเองมีค่าและได้รับการยอมรับอย่างแท้จริง

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