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The work of Morrow, Clark and Brock (1995) found that individuals choose couples whose love patterns are similar to their love patterns, in line with the work of Hahn and Blass (1997), which found that the most common forms of love for couples are friendship love and selfless love, and the least similar to couples is game love. It was also found that couples with similar love patterns are more likely to be attracted to each other and satisfied in relationships than couples with different love patterns, perhaps because they have expectations in relationships. That tends the same way.

"The difference that yearns for the like."

Among the wind waves...Of the ocean of feeling.

We are different from the boat...A mysterious reflection.

Not only did someone fill in...But instead, the heart beats in the same rhythm.

In the silence of that understanding...So we discovered the "house" in both of each other's eyes.

The Mirror That Shines Through the Heart: When Love Is to Discover the Self That Lies in the Body of the One in Front of It

In a cafe infused with the smell of crushed roasted seeds and the warmth of the afternoon sun, Rin sits and looks at the table couple next to him chuckling at a joke that only he and she understand. The front-face image reminds Rin of the old notebook message that people tend to fall in love with people who are "more like" to us than we thought.

Morrow, Clark, and Brock (1995) once said in a psychological study that humans tend to choose couples with self-similar "love styles," it is no coincidence that we feel attracted to pessimistic people or those who value sacrifice, for in the same way...There's that security hidden.

Strings woven with understanding. 🍬

Rin recalls her relationship with her lover, what makes them walk hand-in-hand this far, is not the kind of overtapping excitement in movies, but it's the Agape (selfless love) and Storge (friendship love) feelings that correspond to what Hahn and Blass (1997) discovered that the love patterns that couples tend to be most similar to are the sleepiness of gradually growing friendships and the readiness to put forward good things for each other without any hope of return, while the Ludus (gaming love) or tact in relationships, compare brilliance, vying for each other. Love from the other, and that's what enduring couples are "least similar to," because games can be temporarily fun, but they can't build "trust" forever.

Why can "likeness" make us happy?

Why are couples with matching love patterns more likely to stay together longer, and more satisfied in relationships?

The answer is simple but has profound meaning...Because they have "matching expectations and sacrifices, admiration for each other."

When two people see love as the same tone of color, they will never quarrel about the shade of happiness.

When one sees love as care, the other is ready to be taken care of and sent back, when one sees love as honesty, the other values the same things, the expectations that flow in the tide, the same direction that makes a relationship strong and stable.

Conclusion from the heart

Finally, love psychology may tell us that finding "true love" may not be finding the missing part of the puzzle, but it is finding a "mirror" that reflects the corresponding identity, form, and belief in love, so that on a day when the outside world is chaotic, we will always have someone else who reads our heart rhythm...Without a word, just stand by without hurting but giving us freedom.

By writer Rawroot.

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