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"Anything unnecessary... don't remember."

"Don't Remember What You Don't Need."

Article:# Teacher one- The architect told the story.

Keep what your heart can carry. Let the rest go.

There was a moment in my life...

I used to think that remembering was talent.

Remember every word, remember every expression, remember every wound that people made

Like we are collecting evidence

In order to win... on the day of arguing with the world

But when you grow up to know

Some memories... do not make us better.

It makes us "harder."

Heavy like smiling

Not the most sleeping

Quiet thought

And finally... We are not tired because life is difficult.

We are tired because of "carrying unnecessary memory."

Anything that is not necessary... do not remember

Do not remember the insults of people who have never acted.

Some people are easy to say because they are not responsible for our lives.

He just left the words... and walked away.

But we took that word to sleep all night

It's not fair to our hearts.

Don't remember the same mistakes until they become identities.

We've all been broken, made mistakes, made mistakes.

But mistakes are "an event," not "ourselves."

Don't let memory take us back to punish ourselves repeatedly.

Although today... we have grown up

Don't remember people who make us feel worthless.

The love that makes us cry to prove ourselves

Not love.

It's the "exam field" we'll never pass.

Because the problem was intended for us to fall in the first place.

Don't remember the unsolvable.

Some matters in life do not end with an apology.

Didn't have an explanation.

Didn't have the ending we wanted.

And we have to admit... the world doesn't always owe us answers.

I've seen a lot of people in society.

Looks strong. Looks still. Looks good.

But deep down, he's tired.

Because he remembers everything... except "remember that he should be happy."

Life does not require us to be good at remembering.

Life requires us to be the "necessary choice" people.

Choose to remember sincere people

Remember the lessons that grow up

Remember the words that made you rise.

Remember the day we once fell... so as not to forget that we once got up

But that doesn't help life.

Doesn't help calm down.

Doesn't help us love ourselves more.

Don't keep it a burden.

"Memory is not always a precious thing... something is a heavy thing."

"People who can let go are not better at forgetting... just love themselves more."

"Don't put other people's rubbish in our hearts."

If you're tired,

Try asking yourself gently.

Am I remembering something unnecessary today?

If yes... put it down.

Because our hearts

Not built as a pain warehouse.

Our hearts...

Was made to "live."

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