He’s 50 but I’m a 20 yo girl I don’t like politics

My coworker’s life seems obsessed with politics and it’s exhausting. Our chats should stay on our industry, office drama, or tricky customers. Election talk is normal, but we usually keep it balanced to avoid tension since we’re together 8 hours daily. But he drops right wing takes every 10 minutes, clearly currying favor with our Republican manager, often bashing the left. He blasts political videos so the whole room especially the boss hears, and brings up politics every single time he talks to fellow Republicans. He even rants negatively about DEI hires like it affects him personally. My coworker and I joke we’d pay him $10 to go a day without politics. I just respond with “Wow, that’s wild” to avoid conflict. How do you handle a coworker this annoying?

#WorkplaceDrama #PoliticalOverload #Letschat #Asklemon8 #Stirthepot

2025/8/13 Edited to

... Read moreYou know that feeling? When your coworker just *won't stop talking politics*? It's not just annoying; it can genuinely impact your peace of mind and productivity. I've been there, nodding along, trying to avoid conflict, and just wishing the topic would change. After months of saying "wow, that's wild" and feeling totally drained, I realized I needed a better game plan. It's not about changing their mind, but about protecting my own space and professional environment. Here are a few tactics I've started using, and some I've heard work wonders for others in similar situations when a coworker won't stop talking politics: 1. The Art of the Polite Redirect: This is my go-to. When a political rant begins, I try to gently steer the conversation back to work or neutral topics. For example, I might interject with, "That's an interesting point, but speaking of things that need attention, did you manage to fix that bug on project X?" or "Oh, that reminds me, what's happening with the new client presentation?" It's subtle, but it often works to shift the focus. It reminds them we're here to work, not debate. 2. Setting Soft, Professional Boundaries: Sometimes, you need to be a bit more direct, but still polite. I've practiced phrases like, "I prefer to keep work conversations focused on our projects and tasks," or "I find political discussions distracting during work hours, so I try to avoid them." For me, I might just say, "Oh, I try to avoid political discussions at work to keep things calm." It's not confrontational; it’s just stating a personal boundary. 3. The Power of Personal Space (and Headphones!): Honestly, sometimes the simplest solution is the most effective. If your coworker is blasting political videos or having loud, passionate debates, putting on headphones can be a lifesaver. It sends a clear, non-verbal signal that you're focused, busy, and not available for casual political chatter. Plus, it helps me concentrate better! It's my little "do not disturb" sign in the office. 4. Document, Don't Confront (if it escalates): While I haven't had to go this far, I've learned that if the political talk crosses into harassment, discrimination (especially with comments about DEI hires), or creates a truly hostile environment, it's crucial to document. Not to jump to conclusions, but just to have a factual record. Note down dates, times, and specific comments. This isn't about tattling, but about protecting yourself and ensuring a professional workplace. If it ever impacts your ability to do your job or violates company policy, having a record is essential before considering HR involvement. 5. Focus on Shared Professional Goals: I try to remind myself that despite our differences, we're colleagues working towards common professional objectives. Focusing on those shared goals – like completing a project, helping a customer, or improving a process – can sometimes override the divisive topics. I try to engage them on those work-related things to reinforce our professional bond and deflect from political discussions. And let's be real, sometimes you just need to vent! My coworker and I joke we’d pay him $10 to go a day without politics. Having a trusted colleague (who also finds it annoying) to share a quick eye-roll with, or a friend outside of work to debrief with, is super important for mental health. Just make sure it's not adding fuel to the workplace drama. Ultimately, it's about navigating a challenging situation with grace and professionalism. It's tough when someone *won't stop talking politics*, but I'm learning that setting boundaries and having a few strategies up your sleeve makes all the difference. What are YOUR go-to tactics? I'd love to hear them!

14 comments

Ray's images
Ray

don’t engage. once he brings it up just walk away, he’ll get it eventually

BethAnne's images
BethAnne

Do you have an HR ( Human Resources) dept.? If so, you need to take the problem to them. There are some thingscthat should remain private in the work place, your sex life, your religion and your politics. Good luck. You’re old enough to vote, if you’re old enough to vote you should figure out where you stand politically and learn how the system works. It will behoove you in your future to do so. Wish you the all the best in life.

See more(2)

See more comments

Related posts

Politics
I am not political because most politics regard fuck-tarded people voting for their own selfish reasons, and selfish gains. Fuck-tarded America regards about 99 % of voters who believe their vote actually matters. Votes are just a poling system; not an actual system of movement. Sad to say; but goo
SilentKnightZ-Matthew

SilentKnightZ-Matthew

33 likes

A headline reads "PRESIDENT TRUMP'S 'ONE BIG BEAUTIFUL BILL ACT,' EXPLAINED" above text detailing cuts to social programs and tax breaks for the wealthy. Below is a photo of the U.S. Capitol Building.
I didn't want to post politics, but this is bad
We need to have awareness of what Trump is doing. I'm encouraging everyone to do their own research on top of mine and encourage others to do the same, feel free to leave them in the comments. #politics #trumpisadisgrace #trump #democrat #republican
SillyGoober💔🥀

SillyGoober💔🥀

12 likes

Politics Test - Can you get 7/7?
#quiz #foryou
QuizKingsUSA

QuizKingsUSA

12 likes

Politics Don’t Pay the Bills
The U.S. job market may look stable on the surface, but millions of Americans are still struggling to reenter the workforce. Trump-era policies on immigration and economic regulation continue to block opportunities proof that political decisions don’t just live in Washington, they shape real lives
Progressivemomontheloose🤍

Progressivemomontheloose🤍

14 likes

let’s keep lemon8 politics free
!petition to keep lemon8 a political-free zone! I personally have felt overwhelmed with the varied feelings and negativity all over instagram, tiktok, and more. i’ve even felt a decline in my mental health, and personally targeted, despite never sharing my political opinions online. it’
☁️𝒿𝑒𝓃𝓃𝒶 🪽

☁️𝒿𝑒𝓃𝓃𝒶 🪽

8 likes

EVs: let’s deal with facts not politics
#earloncars
Earl on Cars

Earl on Cars

9 likes

Not Discussing Politics
It’s a privilege to be able to not discus politics and have the ability to ignore politics. As much as I can break this down more it’ll be an essay 🤣 Dont stop talking about politics Dont let ppl silence you Be aware Stay informed #politics #Lemon8Diary #america #lemon8creator
Mikhayla

Mikhayla

5 likes

Why I Quit Politics at 40 to Paint 🎨✨
Jeffery Beckham Jr. shares his incredible journey from a high-stakes political appointment in Chicago to becoming a professional artist. The Journey: • The Choice: Politics vs. Passion • The Catalyst: A mentor’s advice and a life-changing moment. • The Result: 3,000+ paintings sold and galler
crxrdscallings

crxrdscallings

0 likes

A woman with dreadlocks looks to the right, with text overlays stating "Unpopular Opinion: Letting Go Of Politics Saved my mental health It can save yours too!".
A smiling woman in a graduation cap and gown holds a tassel, with text overlays "College Days Circa 2016 Elections Period".
A collage of various photos showing a woman in different happy moments, including a blue heart emoji and the text "Life gets better when you let go!".
How detaching from politics helps us mentally heal
Back in 2016, I was studying abroad in Mexico for my Spanish Minor during the height of the Trump vs Clinton elections. Now when I booked this trip, I had no clue the election would so greatly affect my stay because 6 months ago Mexico wasn’t such a huge topic in Trump’s mouth. Long story short,
Jalloh⚡️

Jalloh⚡️

9 likes

Politics
So I’ve been seeing a lot of political content on this app, which makes sense since this app is now owned by TikTok. Do I enjoy it?? No not really but hey free speech. So in that vain I want to set some boundaries on my personal account. I am a leftist and do not tolerate any kind of hate speech or
Gingerbread

Gingerbread

26 likes

Elon logging off from politics like it’s Twitter.
#fypシ゚viral #fypage #fypシ #fyp #foryoupage
Progressivemomontheloose🤍

Progressivemomontheloose🤍

63 likes

🌟 Don’t Let Politics Ruin Your Relationship 🌟
We live in a time where politics feels more polarizing than ever. With big issues on the table, it’s easy to feel frustrated or even divided—especially if you and your partner have different views. But here’s the thing: healthy relationships are about so much more than politics! ❤️ Here are a fe
FKstressHARD

FKstressHARD

5 likes

Politics doesn’t have to ruin your next family dinner ✨🕊️
Grateful every single day to have a family that’s on the same page, but I’m having consistent conversations with friends who are saying their family has been torn apart by differences with this administration… You may have been there: A loved one says something that makes your blood boil, and
Meredith Dean🌐Travel&Branding

Meredith Dean🌐Travel&Branding

7 likes

Weaponised Nostalgia: Politics of Good Ol’ Days!
Every age imagines the past as simpler, safer, better. But dictators know this: nostalgia is never neutral. It’s a tool. By selling a golden yesterday, they secure obedience today. Orwell warned us: ‘The most effective way to destroy people is to deny and obliterate their own understanding of th
Niki

Niki

1 like

“When politics meets the fight world…”moment nobod
melissarjones

melissarjones

225 likes

A woman in a black dress and plaid cardigan takes a mirror selfie, with overlay text reading "how to navigate OFFICE POLITICS like a pro" and briefcase icons.
An overhead view of a white desk with a keyboard and mouse, featuring an overlay text box that says "Build alliances" and "Get to know key decision-makers and influential people across teams and departments."
A person's feet in black sneakers on a walking pad under a desk with a keyboard, accompanied by an overlay text box stating "Stay neutral" and "Avoid gossip and keep your opinions professional."
How to Navigate Office Politics Like a Pro ✨
Let’s be real—office politics are everywhere. But instead of avoiding them, learn how to use them strategically to grow your career. Here’s how: 🤝 Build Alliances: Get to know people across teams and levels. Strong relationships create opportunities and support. 💬 Communicate Your Wins: Subtl
Alex | Career & Confidence

Alex | Career & Confidence

34 likes

A title slide featuring a blurred image of an adult and a child, with the text 'How to talk to kids about politics' and 'Suggestions from a Pediatric Psychologist & Mother @jessicaleighphd'.
A text slide titled 'Talking to Kids About Politics' explaining that children as young as 3 understand rules, and discussing the importance of age-appropriate political conversations for developing empathy, critical thinking, and emotional intelligence.
A text slide titled 'Communicate in a Developmentally Appropriate Manner' advising on creating safe spaces for discussions, asking children about their understanding, and tailoring conversations about politics to their age, from concrete aspects to media literacy.
How to talk to kids about politics
This was a topic a few people asked me to speak on, so here is some general information on how to talk to kids about politics. #Politics #Parenting #PoliticalConversations #HardConversations #Political
Jessica Leigh, PhD

Jessica Leigh, PhD

2 likes

how to use office politics to your advantage…🤯🤯
when you think of office politics, you probably think of toxic coworkers, gossip, terrible bosses, etc... BUT I'm here to get you to rethink office politics—instead of being negative, try using them as a way to get ahead, make strategic relationships, and build your influence at work. her
Alex | Career & Confidence

Alex | Career & Confidence

11 likes

USA politics in a nutshell.
The Irony was a paid actor in this scene. #elonmusk #usa #politics #trump
Critical Kitchen

Critical Kitchen

9 likes

Politics Don’t Belong On The Field
#unfiltered #fafomaga #maga4life @Kid Rock @TPUSA
Danielle

Danielle

1 like

How to navigate office politics
Navigating office politics can be confusing, overwhelming, and tough. Here are 3 tips to steer clear from the politics and maintain professionalism. #lemon8partner #careeradvice #careertips
thewerklife

thewerklife

17 likes

Things no one tells you about office politics… but I will.
Doing your job well is just the baseline. That’s expected. What actually determines how far you go in your career especially in a corporate environment is your presence, your communication, and how you move around people. This isn’t something that’s talked about enough. And it’s definitely
Felecia Jordan

Felecia Jordan

4 likes

A beige lined paper background features the black text 'I block everybody who makes a post About politics,' framed by light green wavy lines. The bottom left corner includes 'lemon8' and '@starz_27'.
I block people who makes post about politics
Let me start off by saying, I don’t care who you Voted for it’s none of my business. 1. it’s funny to me because people will literally rip your head off if u don’t agree with who they voted for, not everybody has the same opinion. 2. Somehow anytime people talk about politics you hurt the o
Starzie

Starzie

0 likes

Friendship and Politics shouldn’t mix
Friendship and Politics shouldn't mix, that’s why we don’t talk about them except collaborating w/ 5am runners and fitness enthusiasts.
AmericanGenie

AmericanGenie

0 likes

December Politics Anxiety is Real
Anyone else suffer politic anxiety?
Neysita Ney

Neysita Ney

55 likes

#politics #kamala
bluesky__2

bluesky__2

34 likes

Politics aside...
I didn't make it through the whole video without involving politics because people being more concerned with political affiliation rather than doing what is right is what got us here. Please know that all of us - ESPECIALLY the Americans who voted MAGA - are being manipulated by billionaires. E
Lou

Lou

5 likes

friendly tips for 20s
20s : the years of building your foundation. ⭐️🤭 #20s #20something #tipsfor20s #lifestyletips #tips #justagirl #girlinher20s #girlthings #girltips #lifestylecreator
everythingtrin 🫦

everythingtrin 🫦

3706 likes

Politics
#liberal #colorado #maga is gross #felon #grapist
Lauren💙☕️

Lauren💙☕️

30 likes

A person with tattoos on their arms and torso holds a white sign with large red text and small red horn-like symbols. They wear a white crop top that says 'SAVE THE KIDS' and ripped blue jeans. The background shows a building.
Most Evil Woman in Politics Office 💀
Hillary and Bill both belong in Mental Institution 🍕🍕🍕GATE insane! CUT THE GIIRL FACE OFF AND PUT IT ON HER FACE AND STARE TOWARDS HER THEN MURDER FOR THE BLOOD GIVES THEM A HIGH REPITILIAN ENJOY. Lots of Crazy Satanic sacrifices Obama too were in it.
Sammysoza32

Sammysoza32

66 likes

Taco ‘bout politics
I’m not looking for who voted for who. I want to know what everyone actually expects from the next 4 years. (Please don’t mention names) I am talking about what you want not who you want it from. Trying to see if society is capable of a non toxic conversation about politics. Being completely ho
Cassie B

Cassie B

8 likes

🥰 never let politics divide us
#newtolemon8
🇨🇦🇨🇦tazzy_girl1🇨🇦🇨🇦

🇨🇦🇨🇦tazzy_girl1🇨🇦🇨🇦

2 likes

A close-up of two cookies with white chocolate chips, cranberries, and sea salt on a beige and blue plate. The pink text "LEAVE POLITICS OUT OF IT!" is overlaid. A Lemon8 watermark is visible.
Two cookies with white chocolate chips, cranberries, and sea salt are presented on a beige and blue plate. A blurred green plant is in the background. A Lemon8 watermark is visible.
A top-down view of two cookies featuring white chocolate chips, cranberries, and sea salt, resting on a beige and blue patterned plate. A Lemon8 watermark is visible.
LEAVE POLITICS OUT OF IT!
Do you agree or disagree? I am genuinely curious if you think everything is political and if politics should be a part of every discussion and part of every aspect of life. Please be respectful in the comments! #lemon8challenge #politics #MAGA #valentinesdayoutfit #everythingsh
T A Y L O R 🌵☀️

T A Y L O R 🌵☀️

156 likes

Luciferianism and politics
Purgatory Apotheca

Purgatory Apotheca

3 likes

The Politics Of Control #TikTokBan
Stepped into my #breakdance shoes for the video! I have so much to say however this video captured a few of my concerns! #tiktokbanupdate #lemondiaryday3 #lemondiary8challenge #tiktokmademebuyit
Indiana Unleashed

Indiana Unleashed

28 likes

A person with curly hair and glasses wears a black shirt that says 'HOT GIRLS READ BOOKS'. Overlay text reads 'WHY YOU SHOULD TALK POLITICS' with a book icon, introducing the article's theme.
A person with curly hair and glasses is shown with overlay text 'Silence is COMPLIANCE'. A paragraph explains that not speaking up about unfair rules implies agreement and prevents positive change.
A person with curly hair and glasses is shown with overlay text 'Discussions = Solutions'. A paragraph explains that democracy thrives on conversation, preventing bad ideas and promoting good ones for a better world.
Why you SHOULD talk about politics!
I seen post going around about why some choose to not talk about politics and I need you all to understand that thinking like this is DANGEROUS! These politicians bank on us not being informed and hoping we don’t talk about politics! It’s cute to be smart! #explorepage #fyp #politic
L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

L a n a i s Li 🧚🏽‍♀️

70 likes

Politics Suck
why on earth did you come to #Racine anyways lmao #joebiden #biden #bidenharris #president #momof7 #momlife #momsalmost30 #sleepyjoe #politics
Sammie Mama of 8

Sammie Mama of 8

14 likes

Right wing politics in Alternative spaces?
Opinion piece and discussion: Pictured here, we have @𖣂𝔐𝔦𝔫𝔞 𖣂 harassing people for pointing out you can’t be right wing and agree with goth politics? The reply is no longer available, as it’s been deleted by the creator, but you can see other comments where this aggressive behavior is repeated.
RealLifeDiscussions

RealLifeDiscussions

1 like

“We don’t discuss politics on this podcast”
#hasanabi #hasanpiker #fearandpodcast
Lucy

Lucy

2 likes

College Student’s Analogy - Replay and Politics
Vic’s slow-mo rule for politics: if replay won’t settle it, a comment thread won’t either. #politics #collegestudent #slo
Unprepared4

Unprepared4

1 like

Crime, Politics & Scapegoating
Hot take conversations are everywhere but crime data doesn’t support blaming immigrants or any political group as a whole. Research consistently shows crime is more closely linked to poverty, access to education, economic opportunity, and community investment than race or party affiliation. If we t
Freedom and Justice Alliance

Freedom and Justice Alliance

63 likes

WHY I DONT TALK POLITICS (as a poc)
These reasons may sound selfish but my mental health always comes first nowadays Would love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Do you feel the same way? ⬇️💭 #POCVoices #Boundaries #ChoosingMyBattles #politics #Lemon8Diary
Emnet Kebede

Emnet Kebede

1128 likes

Be gentle with them, it's a new concept. #politics
Maximilian Clark

Maximilian Clark

43 likes

no politics on lemon8
My thoughts 💭 I agree that talking about politics isn’t fun — especially in the year of our lord 2025. However… I don’t think that means we shouldn’t talk about it. Here’s what talking about politics ISN’T: 🌟 Fighting/debate 🌟 Personal attacks about character 🌟 Trying to convince someo
snowph

snowph

116 likes

CAN WE GET BACK TO POLITICS?!
Please? Yo😵‍💫 #tiktokviral #hamiltonmusical
Ashleigh🫧

Ashleigh🫧

3 likes

Politics but make it comedy
Drop a follow for a funny girl with a lot to say #drag #dragqueen #podcasting #queer #politics
Queen Versus

Queen Versus

11 likes

See more