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3 ways to love without losing identity

1. Set boundaries

Good love

Shouldn't make you give up everything.

You have the right to say that.

What's okay... What's not okay?

2. Know your own worth

You don't have to try harder.

To make someone love you.

The right one.

Will appreciate... without your resistance.

3. Not everything

Every ovation

Not love.

Sometimes.

It is self-neglect.

Conclusion:

Good love

Should not cause you to disappear from your life

Anyone's love has lost their own self and can bring their own heart home together. Let's share the way.. 💜💚

# Good love

# pairr

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# Relationship

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