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Pretend to be stupid like a soft cut!✅✨🍋

This word is lightly dramatic. 😅

"Pretend to be a soft-cut fool," which means to act like you don't know, not good at people, but actually know, and then use that stillness to overcome or gain an advantage without a direct collision.

📌 explain it visually:

• Pretend not to know → To make the other person accidentally say, accidentally do or reveal the cards

• Don't argue, don't show off wisely → Let the other person think of themselves as superior

• Finally, move quite → with more ready information / rhythm.

👉. A light example.

• Workplace: Listen quietly, let others present ideas first, and then come up with a smooth summary of weaknesses-strengths.

• In dialogue: Act like a pearl, but remember every word, and then reverse it for a reason or evidence.

Advantage

• Waste no power

• Do not create direct enemies

• Be calm and trustworthy

Caution

• If used too often, people may see that they "do not know the real work."

• A thin line between quiet and insensitive.

✅ So it's more of a social skill than a cunning.

Use it right, stroke = cool.

Use the wrong beat = lose credit. 😄

It can be used in any context.# Drug sign with lemon8 # Lemon 8 Howtoo

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