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🚫 5 things not to do if you secretly like your friend's brother!

"If you embarrass him since you haven't been dating

You will not be elected in the first place. "Remember to go up in ✅

Let me expand a little.

Five taboos 🚫 not to do if you like your friend's brother.

Why? Because he doesn't just look at you as a woman.

But you are "the younger of the people he loves and possesses."

And yes, he always thinks more than we think.

❎ 1️⃣ Don't attack in front of your friends.

Dropping, playing sweet jokes on him in front of his brother / sister

❌ not cute.

❌ but makes him uncomfortable.

In his head he immediately thought, "What would it feel like if our brother saw it?"

📌 Right way:

Be normal, polite, natural, and talk to each other in private space.

❎ 2️⃣ Don't be too young or too shy.

A man who is a "elder," especially a neat line.

Will evaluate you in very serious mode.

• Bent

• Irony

• Call attention

= Cut the score quietly immediately.

📌 Right way:

Be still, be reasonable, talk well, he'll feel like "dating without a headache."

❎ 3️⃣ Don't talk to your friend or complain to him.

This one missed so hard 🚨 because you're putting him in the middle.

In his heart he would think

"If really dating, will the relationship be tricky?"

📌 Right way:

Separate roles clearly

A friend is a friend. He is him.

❎ 4️⃣ Don't try to be loved by your family too soon.

Many people think, "You have to approach everyone to be honest."

But for him, it was pressure.

📌 Right way:

Let everything gradually be.

If he's sure, he'll take you in.

❎ 5️⃣ Don't think he doesn't know.

He knows... from his eyes, his voice, his condescension.

He just didn't talk because he was thinking

"Should it risk someone I love?"

📌 Right way:

Make him see that.

You're the one who doesn't embarrass anyone.

🤍 Brief summary

My friend's brother didn't lose the way.

But losing the way

• Be well posed

• Miss others

• And do not speed up the answer

If he chooses you,

Which means he's chosen heart and responsibility.

Please be fulfilled all over the page.# Trending # I want you to know # Love

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