Losing a lover from Covid-19 is an unforgettable nightmare.💔😭😭

Losing a lover from COVID-19 is a very intense, emotional and psychological experience. This sadness often includes not only regret, but also shock, anger, deep regret, or even guilt that some people may face. Our sick loved ones have no right to watch. They call every day. Some families get bad news. Some families get good news. Even on asphyxiating days, they don't have the opportunity to die with an asphyxiant ventilator. Staff, doctors and nurses can only see through a mirror until the vital signs are not alerted. Every day we are almost exhausted. Leaving like a fall, the worst thing was a lot of loss of morale and morale, and we lost a team of doctors, nurses and health workers to treat Covid patients - 19.

Everyone is tired, sleep-deprived, has to endure many hours a day in a PPE kit to alternate meals, go to the bathroom, do personal errands, have to make a lot of sacrifices. Every day, there will be an overflow of Covid-19 patients. We have to limit the number of patients. We see tears. Waiting for treatment. Some can wait. Some can't wait.

Every body that dies from Covid-19 has to be packed in a thick zip bag, closed, forbidden to open. There must be a hospital officer to deliver it to the temple and complete the burning within 24 hours. Even if you cry, you want to hug, you can't say goodbye to your loved ones. Today, every family that loses a lover from Covid-19 is a long nightmare. And what many people find after the loss is

* It feels like the truth hasn't been accepted

* Think about the moment of not saying goodbye or not being together in the end.

* Silence, emptiness in daily life

* Fear or insecurity about the future

These are all "normal reactions" of losses that are not normal at all.

What might help somewhat during this phase:

* Give yourself time to grieve. Don't rush "strong."

* Talk to trusted people, whether friends, family, or experts.

* Write down feelings or memories about the person who left.

* Take care of the basic body, such as sleeping, eating, even when it is difficult.

* If sadness is so heavy that it interferes with daily life, consulting a psychologist or psychiatrist can actually help.

If you're facing this kind of loss, you don't have to go through it alone.

If you want to tell me about him or what you are feeling, I am ready to listen. Encourage all your friends. ❤️# Lose # Covid19 # lemon 8 diary # Leave